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    Moved in with the married couple........

    love and RESPECT yourself then you are truely lovable I guess its easy for me to say it will be fantastic because it works perfectly for us. why it works for us 1. We all fell in love with all of us instantly as soon a we met several years ago. Just like the fairytales...and all of us say...
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    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    Just keeps getting better :D Just an update all of us still in love and passionate all the time. Never any drama always happy.
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    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    No drama at all after 14 months, is this unusual? We've been together as a triad ffm all in love with all, sleep together 1 to two nights a week and all of every second weekend. For 14 months, always happy never had a fight. Much easier than previous relationships, is this unusual?:)
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    Australians New to poly not sure how to proceed

    Another Aussie triad Hi we have been a constant triad for 10 months now. From Melbourne. Very much in love and we sleep together 3 nights a week every week as our meta more female bisexual partner has 1/2 time custody, as we are not out to others. If this was not the case we would be together...
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    What is "romantic love"? Is it a good or bad thing?

    Ok stand corrected Ok we are bisexualy, irrationally arational and as maxwell smart would say, and loving it:)
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    What is "romantic love"? Is it a good or bad thing?

    Love of the romantic, not friends with benifits type is ridiculously rare irrational In our experience, Love of the romantic, not friends with benifits type is ridiculously rare and completely, irrational, crazy, and not a choice. Before we met C we were happy swingers who had 100's of...
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    What is "romantic love"? Is it a good or bad thing?

    What is romantic love? Is it a good or a bad thing? __________________ Love is where your happiness depends on the happiness of another(s) its never about me and its the opposite of selfish and jealousy, its not dependant on being loved back. You can't choose it, it "happens instantly" and I...
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    Poly bi accident, anybody else like us?

    "I'm 60 myself and that is also important for me. So all three of you always have sex together? Or is there one on one action between any two of you as well? Does your gf have any other partners?" Yes sex is great at our age, lots of fun, the best sex ever, multiple orgasms all round including...
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    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    Much easier than we thought is love, and life experience why? We fell into a triad fmf 6 months ago. And it just keeps getting better. All the problems we have seen in other posts just don't happen, no jealousy, just the opposite in fact, no difficulties, great communication, blissful sex...
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    Poly bi accident, anybody else like us?

    Update: amazing and still getting amazinger Wow reading all of the above it sounds like what we have is hard to do. But it's 6 months now and still getting better, and I did not think it could get better. Yes ""Everybody" on the planet is not in a triad or quad, because one on one relationships...
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    Being "in a relationship" (sex & love)

    There is "recreational sex with friends" and then there's "love" We've been swingers for 20 + years and made many friends, some good ones, we've done a lot more than kiss many 100's of others and it was great healthy sporting fun. But that has always been very different to my relationship...
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    What has being poly taught you?

    That's easy to answer, through another's eyes and arms It taught me to see my wife and myself through the eyes and arms of another. A wonderful and powerful thing. And fall in love with all three of us again.
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    Poly bi accident, anybody else like us?

    How Long? We've only been together a few months but the relationship grew quickly. I guess we literally started with a bang so so speak, we had sex before c knew our names even. But my wife and I have been married 31 years and got engaged after 5 days so rapidly falling in love seems to be the...
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    Poly bi accident, anybody else like us?

    Hi polys, We never planned this to happen, we've been occasional swingers for about 20 years. But we met this shy lady at a party who approached us when escaping from a pushy couple. We had a liaison which was great and agreed to meet up as FWB. But it's rapidly gone beyond that, I thought it...
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    Managing sleep

    Update, sleepovers more frequent, still little sleep but happy Hi polys, Said I would give an update, we seem to now have liaisons twice a week rather than every second weekend. It's hard to find time, but it's now a even bigger priority in our lives now as we've fallen for each other, it's not...
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    Managing sleep

    Yes but Hi nycindy yes I take your point about being adults, but part of the fun of this is that we feel like kids in a candy shop. We actually start playing as soon as we see each other. Even the elevator gets a workout on the way up to the apartment. But yes next time we will try to schedule...
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    Managing sleep

    Thanks Thanks for your advice guys, been thinking about getting seperate quilts so middle one does not get so hot and perhaps top and tailing in bed? But I agree a wonderful problem to have. And yes I know every second weekend does not seem so much but it is three nights and we seem to keep...
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    Managing sleep

    We have an amazing new friends with benefits relationship with a lady friend which both make amazing love with. We have been swingers for decades and never expected this to happen And increasing we are becoming emotionally close too. We meet every second weekend. But maybe because it is new we...
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