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"AND IT IS OK TO BE THERE. It's ok to be a grieving person. You don't have to run right out to do anything than the very basics required like food, shower, sleep, work, etc. Baby steps." Your right it's just also a little unbelievable. I moved out of my folks place 5 years ago and it was...

"Understandable. And you know what? It's ok not to trust any more. YEARS of lying is a lot. Aaron picks out Alissa to date. You have no control over that. But YOU pick out Aaron to date. YOU consent to be in a poly V." I did, I was going into this expecting to be a equal partner and be...

To be completely honest with you, I felt like I have given them plenty of chances. I truly tried to make it work, but at this point I'm just tired, I'm tired of being painted as the bad guy, I'm tired of being abandoned, I'm tired of trying to make this relationship work only to get burned...

"Then stop participating. You could walk away and focus your own health and well being. Maybe Aaron wakes up and maybe Aaron doesn't. His well being is his job. But YOUR well being? That is your job. You could do what you have to do so YOU can be free of abusive things. I don't know if this...

It's ok, I understand that not everyone can give me advice but I appreciate being heard.

I do apologize but I'm a little confused on your advice, could you elaborate? Could you explain triangulation? Also I was abused in the past by other people but when you mean it stems from family, do you mean like my blood family or my family (my SO and Alissa)? Also everyone is different and...

Thank you so much for replying, honestly I'm in shock and I feel my heart breaking and I want to cry but I just can't. This is someone who I wanted to spend my life with but I just feel like at this point my SO needs to make a choice and that's either my SO chooses me or Alissa. I don't want to...

So this is day three and my SO decided to kick me out of the apartment because they feel that because I yelled at them that they felt hurt and betrayed, even though I apologised, made a apologise letter and was giving them space. I didn't argue but we did talk a little. They keep telling me that...

So I tried posting this to reddit but it not getting much attention so I am hoping y'all could help me with this issue. This is a long post and I do apologize but a lot has happened in the last 3 days, I hope y'all can help me understand this better. This is going to be a long post so forgive...