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Thank you for responding. That’s what I thought as well. I also love your quote “Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and...

I agree. I think she’s actually monogamous. And even though I have said this to her previously she reassured me that she wants to be poly. She just can’t really cut it at poly, and it is starting to crush my spirit.

Thank you, Kevin. I’ve basically said this to her previously and she assures me that it isn’t true, but her actions are far louder than her reassurance that she wants to be poly.

Thanks for your very thoughtful response. I really appreciated the article, as well! I think both of us have learned to live in crisis-management mode together. I can only imagine what being free from that state of more-or-less constant stress and crisis would look like.

Hey all, I’m 42M, in a polyamorous relationship with my partner, 38F. We’ve been together for 4 years and have been polyam in theory for the whole time. Almost every time I go on a date, or even ask to go for coffee with someone, she has an emotional crisis. I will add that she is working on...