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Wait, all this time we've been told that wearing a mask protects others, not the wearer. Is his wife there? Just trying to follow along.....

Since you asked for feedback, I'll offer this: I'm willing bet that this is not the fist time you've felt this way. Yes, polyamory can pose issues that monogamy will not, but poly can't make anything appear out of thin air. Whether you're into poly or not, this situation is shining a light...

You might get more mileage out of thinking more like a guy in this regard and see this as evidence of your courage rather than as a rejection. Guys are encouraged to put themselves forward, almost to the point of it being a requirement for personal value. Take the positive aspects of this...

I don't have any advice, but just noting that these are two different concerns.

Not to get lost in the weeds, but sapiosexual refers to being attracted to intellect - not necessarily being emotionally close. For example, lots of people seem to have a sapiosexual attraction to Pete Buttigieg and obviously will never meet him, let alone get emotionally close to him or even...

This. The swinging community that I know is ardent about regular testing, condom use and consent. What is a "hard core" swinger?

Nobody can steal someone who doesn't want to go. There is no such thing as a cowboy, cowgirl, home-wrecker, whatever. It's most helpful to keep the focus on what's going on in your relationship and not blame others for "giving her ideas." If someone leaves a relationship, it's because that...

Most poly people aren't out (and certainly even fewer post about it on Facebook) so I would not call this a red flag. It's an extraordinarily rare poly person who posts photos and claims poly relationships on Facebook. Not an indication of their sincerity at all, it's just an indication of the...

Let's talk about what a post poly world means for you. Start a thread!

I know! About five years ago, I started exploring polyamory, having come from a mono marriage, but also having always been open to and aware of non-exclusive relationships. I'm friends with a good number of poly people and even more swingers who socialize with their lovers (poly-likary or some...

The exhuming of this old thread reminded me that there used to be a good handful of former-poly people here. As far as I know, I'm the only one around anymore. I have no idea why there was or would be a push to cordon off that topic or those people.

Polyamory is so much more than "couples" looking for spicy alternatives. Gross.

You mean :) :) :)

Our mods seem to be elsewhere. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Nice try with the spam! Reported. o_O

What was their agreement? Polyamory as long as no amory was involved?

Spam reported

This implies divorce, yes? Solo poly means that you're not part of a nesting, primary or marital partnership, but instead are essentially single.

This person has been posting snarky remarks all over the forum. I guess it's a trolling thing. I've reported them.

Mr. Weezel (Ms. Weezel?) joined yesterday and has already posted six obnoxious comments. Mods, please?