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I definitely agree with what you are saying, maxnsue - we often times let the situations around us become complicated when we choose the wrong actions, or the wrong people for those actions. Having had the day to talk it out with Hubby, and to reflect on the entire situation as well as my part...

Thank you for the input, GalaGirl. Your outside perspective has definitely helped me see the situation in a different light, and helps me understand my own course of action moving forward from here. Cutting out the romance/sexuality from my relationship with Y until she and C sort everything...

Now… Here is where it is most complex. I had mentioned recently to Miss Y that I would be interested in pursuing a sexual, romantic friendship, but she had initially said it would be far easier if Mr C followed a job-lead he had out of state. A little over a week ago Hubby and Miss Y were...

Miss Y came back to live in Ohio a couple years ago. By that time Hubby and I were working on a polyamorous lifestyle together, had tried dating other people but had never gotten anyone past the “freak out over polyamoury” phase. As soon as I knew Miss Y was back in town for the foreseeable...

Miss Y and I met in high school. We were both homeschooled, so we’re a bit iffy on our actual grades, but she was probably just going on her junior year, and I was probably finishing up my sophomore year. We met at a local YMCA that was hosting a homeschool gym day. We hit it off immediately on...

There have been some recent developments over the past few weeks in my love-life that I haven’t had a chance to talk about, or hardly even had a chance to think about and process. I feel like I need to take some time to organize my thoughts before they become backed up and I begin to emotionally...

You can call me polyRAR. For the time-being I am trying to keep myself (and by extension, everyone else I am involved with) anonymous for the time-being because I don't want it to effect those around me. Me as an individual: I am 27, living in Dayton, OH. I identify as pan/bisexual, and I am...

Yes, that was our old living-situation. It was definitely a "crowded" living-situation but very comfortable once we were all settled in together. Kevin T., knowing that other people are willing to help with my situation - and talking it out, and explaining it to other people - has definitely...

You've pretty much hit the nail on the head there, sparklepop. That's actually... Very profound, and exactly what I needed to hear! :D I definitely have a bad habit of either ignoring my feelings, or absorbing myself with them. We talk occasionally, but usually just online. I thought about...

Writing a letter could, I think, definitely help; it would especially give me a chance to organize my thoughts as I'm getting them down so I don't become petty or upset. I definitely have a bad habit of letting problems with the past or future upset my present-life - you are right that I need...

Father-in-law was getting a special break on his rent from the land-lord due to being at the house for so long, and some special circumstances; while the land-lord said he would transfer the lease of the house over to us he wouldn't be willing to give us the same price break, meaning that rent...

In case you don't know me, you can call me RAR and I am living in a nice little poly knot. My husband and I are each others' primaries but he has a girlfriend, Miss J, and I have a girlfriend, Miss M. Miss J is a professional woman and she and hubby only get to meet up with each other...

Nycindie, I think you've definitely hit the nail on the head! To be totally honest, probably one of my biggest flaws as a person is letting my fears become self-fulfilling prophecies: if I sense that I might fuck up I spend so much time and energy worrying about how that could happen that I end...

Most of my situation is covered in my introduction here, but I'll sum up: my Life Partner (husband) and I have been working for a few years on maintaining an open and polyamorous lifestyle. Recently we have succeeded: he has his own girlfriend, and I have very recently started an intimate...

I hope it's alright if I add my own new success-story :D A little back-story: I have been attracted to this wonderful lady since I met her a couple years ago, but didn't actually begin forming a friendship with her until last year when she joined our family as my brother-in-law's girlfriend. I...

Ahh yes, this post hits very close to home for me! I would say that exploring my polyamorous side, along with discovering my sexual orientation and gender identity, was definitely correlative with me leaving the church and Christianity but certainly not causative. Even as a child I knew deep...

A warm 'hello' to the other forum members here! First off, thank you for creating this forum - I hope that this community will be a comfort to me, and I hope that as I gain experience I may be a benefit to the community. It's hard for me to figure out where to begin, so I suppose I'll start at...