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I understand what you are saying, but I also see it that she does have multiple partners, in a way, both me and my wife. I fully understand that we may be very unfair in this and I'm not looking for approval. Just reading your responses and writing out how I feel has been very helpful.

Thank you. I think that that term explains a lot. I don't know if my wife and I can move pass that or not. We are willing to share her in our lives as much as she wants, but yes, we are selfish and have trouble if she moves beyond just us. Maybe we aren't really poly, and maybe we aren't really...

You don't seem hostile, and to be honest, I didn't really expect much reaching out to the internet. I realize my choice of language may be poor. There was never a controlling aspect to this and I don't want it to come across like there was. She saw my wife and me equally, loving us both and...

We didn't tell anyone because that was her wish. One of the problems we have is that because she can't tell anyone about us, we can't go anywhere with her as a couple/three.

Perhaps "let" was a poor choice of words. She is free to do as she wants, and unfortunately she chose to leave us and see this new guy. We just can't see how her dating others while seeing us would fit into our relationship and that is why it ended. I guess it was a line we couldn't cross and...

Hello. I am writing to you because I don't know who else to talk to. My wife and I have been seeing another girl for about 8 months. Last Friday she told us that she wants to keep seeing us while dating other people. She was asked out by a friend who didn't know about us. We said that it wasn't...