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    When do most "Let's go poly" conversations take place?

    Is it before anyone has found a potential metamour or after? Does the answer to that question affect the likelihood of success for the change?
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    In the beginning...

    The typical post I read starts like this: "We had been together for 10 years when..." or " we had been married for 14 years when..." the narrative makes it seem like someone is substandard/inadequate. Has anyone started a relationship with a discussion about poly? Maybe not the first date, but...
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    Body shame...

    Many people are ashamed of some aspect of their physical appearance, especially weight. Has having poly relationships helped you with this? or has body shame kept you from taking the plunge?
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    Better late....

    I am probably older than most on this forum, so please forgive me if I have inaccurate ideas about men and women. I fell into this kind of thinking...when I was 10, I read many of my friend's mother's books while having sleep overs at his house. All of her books were about non-traditional...
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    How long does the newness take to wear off?

    I am still on the outside, looking in, but more and more interested. I have a close male friend who started cheating on his wife. He only saw his lover once a week - the secrecy of the meeting made the relationship (temporarily) more exciting. After a few months, he left his wife and moved in...
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