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I really hope it doesn't get to that point for me. Making counsellor appointment tomorrow.

Learner!

Love it all! You both look so happy! Yay! <3 Many congratulations

And I have changed in so many aspects since then. And I'm no long accepted for things. If he cannot accept me for how I am now then we will have to stop relationshipping. Which makes me very sad, but I can't be me otherwise. I'm working on it...but still struggling with that. I still seem to...

That describes me completely Mags! lol! ;)

Have you looked into mineral deficiencies? Leg cramping is likely to be magnesium or potassium deficiency. Food allergies are also linked to mineral deficiencies.

There are some people in sexual relationships with their motor vehicles... :eek:

I just made a thread... http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?p=297614#post297614

Hi all, I just wanted to make a chilled out thread (not for hook ups) on here where us UK based folk could chat and connect. Hope that is ok and hi! Maybe we could quickly introduce ourselves. My name is 'Journey' and I live in the South east of England not too far from London. I have only...

Thank you Leetah, I'm not the kind of person who is easy to talk over haha!! .

I know what you're saying. It isn't primarily about religion, but it will have a huge influence on whether he'll even consider it. It would be quite a culture shock for anyone regardless of their beliefs if they are mono and as the relationship started out as a mono one. However, the church will...

I've heard it called 'V plates' as though the body is a car and you only get your 'L plates' once you've lost your virginity. *rolleyes*

Well exactly. Just goes to show he doesn't understand polyamory. It's not about me wanting to go and have sex with whoever I fancy (pretty sure I'm demisexual anyway) and does he think that I am irresponsible when it comes to my children?! I would be very careful to make sure they understood...

Just wanted to point out...I didn't expect him to be like "oh you're polyamorous? Great lets go find some other people to get it on with!" I expected to be given space to explain myself, I expected a bit more open-minded-ness and less controlling behaviour. That's not too much to ask right...

I completely agree Max, which is why the title of this thread is what it is. How do you even begin to explain something like that? I am hoping counselling will give us an opportunity to discuss all of this. However right now he seems to think I was only interested in someone else because he...

That sounds extreme Mags, poor people! I don't feel like I have anything like that to escape. The people at church haven't said much to me, except a few want to meet up with me to chat with me as they are concerned about me. My husband has said he doesn't agree with what I'm doing (spiritually)...

This is very much my focus right now. I have the contact details for a counsellor who sounds like she would be good. I'm trying to get into contact with people. I'm building on my existing friendships with those who are open minded and interested.

I'm afraid I don't have the energy to respond to every comment here but please know that I am so thankful for each and every one. And just to clarify, the friend in question is male and it's more than a crush. I don't know which my husband would find a worse offence, male or female! Now that...

It's not just the poly he has an issue with, it's the emotional affair I had with my friend. I didn't handle things very well. He has accepted that he has an issue showing his emoticons and he's sorry for what he told my parents. But my parents (well I've only spoken to my dad) are being great...

Thank you so much everyone. He has threatened to take the kids away from me if I pursue this lifestyle choice and I can't let that happen so that's the end of that for me. Thank you for all your valuable advice, I couldn't have asked for better. Especially to Mags and Galagirl who have opened...