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  1. Quasar

    Last Letter Game

    Titanic
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    Last Letter Game

    I deleted my previous word because we answered the same time. Will go from here: Khon
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    Last Letter Game

    Silk Road
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    What are you listening to now?

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    About to marry into a throuple

    There are adult cruises where swinging and ENM is common, so you won't be necessarily the odd one out. Just a thought.
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    Notes from the Underground

    Are you a biologist? I love your comment on polyamorous plants! And sorry to hear about Rover.
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    My intro: difficulty finding my identity

    Good luck!
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    Do you consider poly an orientation or a relationship style?

    It is both in my situation. I am able to love more than one person, and I choose to want to be with them.
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    A Question for the Guys

    Breasts do not matter for me so much. It mainly is the curves and the eyes for me, from a visual perspective. Connecting through the eyes and the things unsaid.
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    How to seek long-term connection

    Relatives have not evolved. They are still not very supportive, but we wanted the elderly around during younger years. But we will be telling the children, so eventually there will be some distance there with family. Or a parallel social arrangement. Thank you, Magdlyn. Very informative. I do...
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    How to seek long-term connection

    Thank you, Kevin. With majority of the women there is always a mental compatibility. It seems my inability to offer more down the escalator was the problem while I do have the willingness for it.
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    How to seek long-term connection

    Yes. All those things combined. It was/is a very parallel poly, and my wife had issues with overnights. At a certain point a person would like to have more, and I would like to give more, but the situation was not viable enough to do so.
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    How to seek long-term connection

    That has been somewhat my approach. I speak to women for weeks, months, even years before meeting them. Still has the same result. I could not host in my home due various reasons, and also opened up in a tumultuous phase of our lives. Now I have more space to actually do all the things as...
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    How to seek long-term connection

    My wife does not share that vision right now, but could see it in the future. For now our children are our priority. The garden party model is something we hopefully could work to. I am in agreement, LaminarFlow. Unfortunately due to our environment we were very hesitant to do so. Especially...
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    How to seek long-term connection

    "Kitchen-table poly" is something I would like to have, but a "parallel poly" is the structure that I have only been able to offer, and it has not been working out for me. At a point I would like to work on a "garden party" model when telling the children. Atleast the elder one. I am not out...
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    How to seek long-term connection

    Thank you, Bobbi. I did want to be with someone that I met a long while back. My wife had a very difficult time with work and me seeing her, so the person eventually gave up. It was during one of ours lows, so it was also not fair on the person I was dating, so that perhaps contributed to the...
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    How to seek long-term connection

    Eventually I would see myself with my partners all together being able to spend time, but that would be when we have told the children. We are maybe thinking to tell the eldest. I see we have still some process in that area. My wife has met a few of my dates, but no interest at this time unless...
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    How to seek long-term connection

    Yes. We have found the stability. There may be limits in what I can offer, compared to what I actually feel I would like to offer. I am letting them know I want something longterm with someone and my wife is supportive in doing so. We are still shielding the children as they are small and will...
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    How to seek long-term connection

    No, I am aware of what I write. Someone changed my message.
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    How to seek long-term connection

    A few of them have mentioned wanting longterm. While I think it is going well, it fizzles out after a couple of times of meeting. Isn't it good to have some expectations? Especially if one wants it to go somewhere.
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