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Well, from what I've read, I'm not properly poly because in my low self esteem aspect I don't like being friendly with my partner's partners. It's an open relationship where there's permission to play around but no requirement of everyone getting along. I only have one aspect with low self...

I've always held that out as a totally acceptable option for interaction with the women I've talked to about deeper interests. I think the fear of ulterior motives may scare those ladies off. On the bright side of that, I'm always at least trying to be clear and up front about myself and my...

Certainly not my rule! I was comparatively lucky in my youth and women sometimes broke that rule. I've had multiple discussions about it since I started this whole "go out and try" trip in 2009 with a involuntary monogamous hiatus between '12 and '17. Apparently lots of men react badly to women...

Hi. I'm Kelly, in Columbia Mo. I feel like poly is the ethical, logical, way, but over the last nine years it's made me feel like a fumbling buffoon trying to experience anything extra on my side of the relationship. Guys, poly or not, don't seem to care much about relationship status, plus the...