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Fine at the hotel, not as good in general. Using a VPN which seems to help, though not sure why.

We managed to get places with king sized beds! A miracle!

Welp, it all became official this last weekend. Things went well. We are currently in Barcelona, and hoping to see more of the city than we have so far (lol lol). Thanks again for all the advice building up to all of this!

I don't think he's misogynistic. That implies woman hating. The term gets overused, and I don't see evidence of woman hating. But a sexist double standard? That's showing red flags for me big time. Fetishistic for the reasons you describe? I think a moderately clear red flag there as well...

We don't know him. We can't say for sure, and some people on here act like they can. But the vibe I really, really, really get is that everything you are saying means he's not a good candidate for a POLY relationship. And if he is determined to be poly, I'd show his ass the door. I think I'd...

Ok, but your argument isn't, "I'm 40, and everyone has downsides, and I want to give this a chance a bit longer to be sure because of age." Your argument is all of that, PLUS let's add a really stressful/difficult dynamic, that might hurt a third person, and see if that accentuates the problems...

My take is that if you are already feeling qualms, even to the point of already feeling guilty bringing a third person "into this", then your bf isn't the right person to have a throuple with. I say this as someone in a fully active triangle throuple and thrilled to death. So I'm not anti...

BINGO. Thank you all for giving me winning arguments (including one person in private messages) I just convinced the other two to spend the night in the apartment :)

I love this image lol

We have one hotel in spain where we'll try to checkin discreetly (a lot easier when two arent wearing wedding dresses) but where it'd be awkward to be known, and then a rural Airbnb that is wonderful, and the host knows we are a triad and is supportive. We haven't yet decided how to break down...

So the wedding is just a little over a week away. It's a very small affair because of money/budget, lack of interest in spending a fortune, and limited people who would be accepting enough to make it a joyous occasion. We are blessed, inasmuch as 2 of us are from very small families, and the...

Wedding dresses purchased and fitted, honeymoon plans coming to shape, man time starts to fly when you get close to an exciting/scary date, doesn't it?

Thank you!!!!!

Hi, I'm Kaitie's Sam, and I created an account since I was reading most of this with her anyway. Thought I'd introduce myself :)

Hi, I'm Samantha (or Sam), 34, F and getting married this spring to Kaitlin (27F, whom I believe y'all know) and Taylor (33M). I don't plan on posting as much as Kaitie, but since I've been reading a lot of the responses WITH her, and suggesting some things for her to say, we thought it more...