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What you have is a much more realistic goal than a poly-fi "true"* quad all living in one household. *I make this distinction because it is more common for a quad to mean two couples that swap partners as opposed to four individuals who are all intimate with each other.

Of course the chances are high that you and a future bi person would find someone you are both interested in. The question is will they have feelings for both of you. Then add a fourth into that mix. It's good that you are willing to be patient lol. Many couples start out looking for a mutual...

Sometimes closing one door opens another. Sorry things went the way they did with Teach though.

It was a concern of mine because you didn't mention any of that. It's good that he knows what he is getting into. Why do you see yourself resenting it? It's your choice to not date others. It's your kink that is bringing this about. Are you worried reality might not live up to the fantasy? If...

Ironically, I was being sarcastic. Little did I know Trump would claim he was being sarcastic. I was watching as it happened. It was ridiculous and horrifying at the same time. Humor is my coping mechanism. I am wondering if there will be history books in the post-apocalyptic world. Maybe we...

Hi and welcome to the forum. Since you don't currently have any desire to date others why not just tell her that. Tell her that if that changes the two of you will talk about it. You don't know if you will and you don't know how she will feel about it at a later date. People grow. In the...

I don't think you should be expected to just handle it. It is he who is doing a lousy job. You just need to make your needs known better and he needs to listen to them. Explain that you need him to manage his time better. He is totally caught up in NRE right now. It's also not right that he...

I'm going a little stir crazy. I thought I heard Trump say we should look into injecting disinfectant...lol But seriously, I am going a bit stir crazy. I only go to the store. I need more. My Domme friend and I are contemplating hooking up again. Maybe next week. We both take precautions so we...

I'm a guy who has female friends who I find attractive, but it's still platonic. We talk about details of our lives with each other as friends do. There is nothing fishy about that to me. It's really not your business to regulate Bobby's personal life. How he handles things with Debbie is his...

First off, women in open relationships aren't prostitutes. They are mature adults who have made a valid relationship choice. I understand you are angry, but look to your own marriage for answers as to why your husband cheated on you. I think it is likely your husband lied to her too. As a...

That wasn't even close to a swinger mindset. It only happened because we all had feelings for each other. Her jealousy got in the way of having a healthy triad. Edit: or I should say she wasn't a swinger, even though she had some of the same insecurities.

What does a "meta seeing you" mean to you? It's reading like how dare Shila hit on my wife even though we are open. People can't help who they are attracted to. And not everyone has time to meet total strangers and develop relationships. It's common for people to look to people with whom they...

I see it as beginner level in the sense that swinging and threesomes are how most couples test the waters of non-monogamy while not being truly non-monogamous. I think mono people feel a certain sense of comfort in being in the room or participating. It allows them to keep an eye on their...

In light of this new info, I have to agree. The first post insinuated that the wife came out as bi. Now it seems she went along with a threesome and is no longer interested. My initial assessment was incorrect.

The clutching of pearls will probably not get you very far.

Apparently people don't get it here either...lol. What I am seeing is that you have experienced compersion at seeing your wife be happy fulfilling that part of her sexuality. What concerns you is that she is seeming to block it out now. You are worried that repressing that part of herself may...

This statement is false and it is the first sentence.

Oh thanks, but that was back in 1992. It wasn't something my girlfriend at the time and I were seeking out. It just happened. The reason it didn't work out was because she was a very jealous person. She didn't want the new girl and I having sex without her there. New girl (and I) wanted us all...

As is this one https://www.forbes.com/sites/coronavirusfrontlines/2020/04/17/a-virologist-explains-why-it-is-unlikely-covid-19-escaped-from-a-lab/

I understand it is not as easy as it sounds. I've been extremely lucky myself. I've also had a run of bad luck, especially these last few years. I'm a 57 year old long haired hippy dude who doesn't work out at all and has strange sexual proclivities. I think you are better off than me lol. I...