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  1. vinsanity0

    Stop The Vinsanity...

    Yes, when I came up positive they told me to get retested in two weeks. My mom's test came back negative. She happened to test at the same place I did in the same day. She went in the morning and I went in the afternoon. Mine should come in today or tomorrow, I hope. I'm trying not to...
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    Advice re leaving a monogamous marriage

    I just want to point out that your choices aren't limited to hierarchy or solo. There are plenty of people who have nesting partners and practice non-hierarchical poly.
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    Communication failure or cheating? is it the same thing?

    So you talked about poly pre-Covid and she agreed? Then Covid hit so that was put on hold? Then you brought it up again and she had reservations but...? I'm not sure exactly how that conversation went. Was there talk of any sort of rules involved? Then you told her you were going to go out with...
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    Stop The Vinsanity...

    Still no symptoms. I went and got tested 3 days ago. They say they have the results in 72 hours, but that is a lie. They are way backed up. Pet got hers back and she is negative. Same for my Domme friend and my mom's bf and my brother. My mom had to get retested because hers came back as...
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    New date expectations/Keeping the door open

    Covid may skew things a bit. I could see wondering if a person was communicating with me a lot because we all have a bunch of time on our hands. I might wonder if it would be the same if there was no Covid. I do think 3 dates is way too early to make some sort of commitment to a tangled...
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    In the garden

    That usually means they aren't that interested, they treat people like crap, or they are stuck in the hospital with no phone for a few days, which is what happened to me. Poor Pet thought I either ghosted on her or died lol.
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    Co-dependency and heart ache

    Like some of the others, I see this as a compatibility issue. He is poly and you are mono. Even after 5 years you view things through the mono lens, rather than a poly-friendly lens. He wants autonomy. He doesn't want to have to walk you step by step through each interaction he has with others...
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    Stop The Vinsanity...

    I am still not showing any symptoms. My people still haven't got any test results back. They aren't showing any symptoms though. Things are on a slow boil with Pet and I as I ride out my quarantine. We are both definitely ready. Gee, I wonder what the next roadblock will be. My vision hasn't...
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    Stop The Vinsanity...

    You have way more faith in Americans than I do. At this point everybody should be calling for his head. There are people who still believe he has absolutely done nothing wrong. It's beyond political posturing. It's some form of mass psychosis.
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    Complicated “poly” relationship, in need of guidance

    If you've had enough, then enough is enough. You are not wrong here. The name for what you are is "unicorn". How you came about being a unicorn is a little different than usual, but you are a unicorn nonetheless. This is a fairly typical dream of couples, but can be a nightmare for the unicorn...
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    Not really a blog

    Wouldn't saying you saw them at work still violate confidentiality? I like your idea of meeting them. After meeting them in a social setting, would it be considered improper to say hello at the office, just to drive the point home?
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    Stop The Vinsanity...

    I believe that is what caused mine. I also believe doctors in my state are encouraged to not link it to coronavirus for political reasons.
  13. vinsanity0

    Stop The Vinsanity...

    Our city passed an ordinance that we have to wear masks when going into buildings. Still, I've had to yell at some people, including employees of those places for letting people in. Even though I shared my story on FB, I still have people on my friends list (trumpanzees) who post anti-mask...
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    when I first discovered this

    I understand an aversion to labels. People attempt to use them to define us or how we should behave, sort of like you are doing here. On the other hand, they can be useful to form community among people who didn't realize there are other people like them around. Polyamory was coined in the...
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    Stop The Vinsanity...

    Thanks guys, I appreciate it. I feel fine, other than the vision thing. I'm starting to get used to that. The only thing is my vision blurring on one side makes me think I should feel light-headed or something, but I don't. What I do feel is pissed off at people who still think it's okay not to...
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    One Penis Size Policy

    But, since this is basically all in his head, wouldn't he be the one getting dumped? I mean, I guess it's possible some guy could come along and try to cowboy her away, but it seems more likely the BF is going to be the one constantly creating a competition.
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    Mono Husband trying to be understanding

    When you say it's not her fault do you mean it's your fault for letting her control who you date? It's not surprising you don't feel good about all this.
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    In the garden

    Yeah, those days are probably behind me, but that's okay.
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    Disentanglement

    Then what would it mean to you? That's really the only important thing.
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    One Penis Size Policy

    We try to have a sex positive forum here. While it's fine that you are not into BDSM, please keep your comments respectful. I'm sorry you couldn't come to a better conclusion. Good luck finding a meaningful relationship based on penis size.
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