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(With apologies to the OP. I know it looks like we are focusing on the anal part, but we are just using that as an example that applies to many things.) 1 and 2 are not points anyone would disagree with. Number3 is more complicated. While vanilla people tend to focus on the physical acts we...

My personal favorite was how there aren't diseases in tropical areas because of the sun.

Hi and welcome to the forum. Believe it or not, your configuration of a closed FFM triad is pretty rare. I hope you can stick around and offer some insight into how it works for you. I was the M in that configuration many moons ago but it didn't work out well.

I helped organize the local PDA chapter, for one thing. I'm very active in my local community. I volunteer for campaigns. I harass my Senators. lol Your choice is part of the problem. ETA: I think you underestimate the power of social media. Without it a game show host would have never been...

Sorry, not sorry. I can't stick my head in the sand like that. There are armed protesters. Trump knows exactly what he is doing and it's not just mouthing off. There are Trump rallies disguised as protests happening all across the country. Just because it's not happening in NYC means nothing. I...

You are not wrong to have feelings. You might be wrong to try and make comparisons. I don't think that's healthy. For me, one of the joys of poly is the difference between partners. Your wife doesn't want to do anal with you? Big deal. Find a partner who does. My wife didn't like anal. Two of...

As Mags alluded to, the dream is often not in line with reality. The common dream among mono men is to add another woman to their couple. Even though this is the model most commonly depicted in the media, it is a rare occurrence in real life. In order to be successful at poly, one must shed...

Now is really not the time to put Trump on ignore. Shit's about to get real. With a big hot spot in Detroit, and Michigan having the third highest death toll, their governor issued a very strict stay at home order. Obviously this doesn't fit the Trump narrative of "everything is fine and...

I'm sure if anybody's child was assaulted they'd want to tend to their child first and worry about who did it later. There is plenty of time to place blame later. Placing blame is not going to make a vaccine materialize. Placing blame is not going to make a treatment materialize.

Please explain what you mean by this.

The anti-vaxxer who claims to have invented email? LMAO

I understand it hurts you. I don't know what he suffers from, but sometimes people need to regroup on their own. That is not a reflection of their feelings for you. He needs you to show your support by letting him heal on his own terms.

Hi and welcome to the forum. Yes, promiscuity does have a negative connotation due to societal programming. We try to break those social norms. Still, we do adhere to some of them, which is why we talk about ethics. It's a balance between our animalistic nature and society. It's my theory that...

We are definitely headed in that direction lol

I find myself feeling bad lately. It must be some form of survivor's guilt. This pandemic isn't hitting me hard. I'm already not very social. I'm not hurting for money. I am way better off than a lot of people. Not that it hasn't affected me at all. I was wondering n the process of going back to...

Thank god Jonas Salk didn't think like that.

Good point. That would have to be me. I've been assuming the virus would be killed during the cooking process.

I think it is quite common that people react very negatively to things because it highlights things in their own lives. I'm not saying everybody reacts strongly for that reason, just that it seems pretty common. I'm not surprised the other couples are more sympathetic towards Sam. After all, in...

Those are valid questions. By"going nowhere" I was referring to the relationship being in a state of constant flux, not particularly referring to the relationship escalator. I agree with you that a relationship doesn't have to ride the escalator to be satisfying. I think you are taking things...

Jane Q summed that up nicely. I literally laughed out loud at the "Why is my girlfriend such a dude?" part because that described Cat and I perfectly. She was a one and done type and when she was ready to orgasm, she was ready. I wasn't disappointed though. I was having sex with her because it...