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I feel that we are categorizing things on the wrong dimensions. We have all this HBTQ and poly/mono stuff that only categorizes people on whom is sexually attracted by whom, and whether it is pairs or groups. Then we have asexuality that is thought to mean "I have no sexual urge at all". Nowhere...

I actually don't define it, but rather leave it up to participants to define. However, I know this question is related to other spiritual issues as well. The connection is not that all polyamory people have this, just that it is more common.

Yes, it is 'A' that is seriously flawed.

The major issue I have with all of this is that asexual in my research is not about disliking sex per se, but to dislike the way sex is typically practised in relationships (as a way of bonding). Now, also from my research, polyamory is most related to a different contact phase where sex is used...

Another possibility is that you start out finding another man instead, and then let him find another woman. Or do it simultaneously.

You seem to be similar to my wife. That's why I will probably not look for another woman at all, but rather build additional attachments more on the friendship level. My friendships typically are hard to distinguish from relationships. I think her problems with this concept really has to do...

I've developed a neurodiversity quiz for about 10 years, and finally got it published last year. However, in the new version (which has polyamory as one of the questions), it seems like polyamory is closely linked to private relgious beliefs, which really is not expected. Anybody have a good...

If I wanted to have another woman I would absolutely want to pick her myself, and that's not even up for discussion.

I disagree. I'm basically asexual and live in a mono-relationship, but I'm polyamory by nature. I wouldn't accept sex outside of the relationship, but I would accept other attachments (and have one myself). I really dislike it when it is assumed that polyamory is something sexual, and you are...

I usually test as INTP.