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flee

This is where I'm at currently. I think the infidelity was a focal point that we desperately needed, it has brought attention back to where it was suppose to be all along... but its not an easy path by any means.

zeitgeist

Optimism

pretend

could that not apply to this entire thread? I'm sorry you found my response aggressive and felt like you had to stab back; that wasn't my intent. It was more like "thinking out loud" except... via text... haha I visit a few too many forums I suppose.

People choose cheating because they are scared to communicate. Just remember, you (not directed at anyone in particular) might be about to shatter the other person in your life... My recent brush with infidelity crushed me and I am still trying to recover... Cheating isn't just about you...

Congratulate

You complain about mixed terms and getting things strait, yet use nimrod as an insult. very ironic :) (Nimrod is a biblical charactor that was a great hunter, this was used as an ironic insult by bugs bunny; the audience was not smart enough to get the comparison and thus we have this...

Your having anxiety and desperation while meeting people your self or while your partners are? That doesn't sound like a very fun situation to be in, certainly your not carrying this milstone around ALL the time, are you just "in that mode" now or is this a constant worry? ;) It seems like...

manifestation (can't believe I spelled that right the first time)

Wizard

commit

I get that sense as well, but; on the other hand... Nothing worth achieving is easy; maybe that applies here as well?

Our conflict with infidelity and finally reaching truth seemed to do the same thing, I think your route may be a bit more healthy; however. I wonder if relationship trauma has a similar refocusing effect to "outside" NRE exposure? glad to hear you handled what you thought would be a difficult...

speed

boredom

Nescience

insanity

indulgence