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Very good read; especially with the forums focus in mind.

I'm on a League of Legends kick... but I like competitive/social games. I usually describe it as 5v5 chess.

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When ever I think about it I want to impose all these silly boundaries.. no PDA around me, no PDA in public, (I have some weird discomfort/fear of other people "finding out" as we live on a TINY island; still working on that, it shouldn't matter) no texting or calling around me... I think I...

So nothing other than "more" relationship boundaries? do you hang out with the other guy?

What type of boundaries do you set? if any? Is there still a jealousy reaction? have any Envy?

Your situation sounds similar to mine; I'm glad to hear it is working out as I am eyeballing a similar path, I have no doubt this will change my relationship to a lot more drama (seems to be the common Poly theme.. haha) and communication and personal growth. I hope I can figure my situatin...

I agree, I would consider this the only "change" and it seems reasonable and I thought we were both clear that it was just a one time thing until later; but I will clarify it again to be sure we are both on the same page. I think our relationship is new after the affair; we both are being more...

I will contact him first at the end of the month, I asked her that if she really felt she needed to contact him to wait until then. (I think compromise is the best thing when trying to work with someone, especially if they have any trepidation's). I don't doubt I am, I'm still a bit confused...

I've had this feeling for years with my Partner, she's very flirtatious and enjoys the attention, we always had fun when she would dance with other guys and if they got grabby push them away and come make out with me.. lol I grew up in the west coast with hippies (well, my single mom) and I...

I guess it could be seen that way, I saw it more as she was worried about someone she loves going out into the ocean in alaska where a lot of people do die. She asked me if she could call him before he went out; our previous "agreement" was just me asking her not to talk to him while we worked...

I've watched a lot of her on youtube, I don't think I need the book; I get what she is saying and it matches my situation pretty closely; except the guy that she cheated with she loves now and is afraid that she'll have to loose him. She asked me if she could call him to say good bye before he...

Well I don't think the volume really matters for the definition; not sure how that applies. Well it certainly matches how I feel right now, that's what I meant to say... I do think there is still a stigma against men who have been cheated on; not to say that it is correct. I don't think it...

Well, we have been together for over 6 years and I consider that we have 6 kids and 2 grand children together; (biologically we have zero children together, I have 1, the rest are hers). All the assets are in my name, but I consider them ours as well. We run a successful business off the...

I never considered a relationship just romantic, I am very financially tied to my partner as well and committed to a "its her till the end" mentality. Just trying to see how realistic this is. Poly seems to at times have "primary" relationships, which gives me a bit of a sense of ease, I can...

Alternately, it seems like a very appropriate word for those who have been cheated on and seems to include and describe the insecurity that comes with it the infidelity. I do not think it is a poor term, perhaps it is just applied incorrectly too often.

Haha, I suppose that would change my point of view.... If that is where our relationship ends up, I have serious doubts that would happen even if I tried. We live on a tiny island in the Caribbean; I'm sure this is feeding a bit of my jealousy/envy and other issues I'm working through. But I...

Thanks for sharing your story, it's good to hear. Haha, yeah... where's the bootcamp version? I need some paradigm shift asap! :o

So, when you say you've been in a poly relationship, that sounds singular to me. This means you have a "main" relationship and the rest are just accessories/alternates? It seems like this is how a lot of what I'm reading about happens, if I'm getting it correctly?