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Lunabunny, Thank you for this comment. I definitely hear where you are coming from, and recognize my responsibility in my own feelings and misunderstanding in this context. I have to admit I have strong feelings for my other partner too, and at times feel differently about everything due to...

Thanks, I think so too. I am feeling better but still frustrated about it.

Hi Lunabunny, Thanks for your very thoughtful reply!! Yes, H is pretty conflict avoidant. That’s certainly part of the problem. And to answer your question, yes, everyone was aware about me applying for jobs. H was really excited for me because I’ve had a lot of interview success. Changing...

I’m not really sure what I am looking for in terms of advice or feedback in posting this. I just need to air my thoughts and feelings in a safe space. If anyone has ever experienced anything like this, I welcome your perspective! Brief history is that I am married (let’s call him H). H and I...

Thank you!!!

Hi all, Something that has been coming up for me lately is the current experience of NRE I am experiencing in my newer partnership, and how this affects my other partnership (coincidentally, my husband, but i don't think the title matters). I have been with my lover for about 4 months, and we...

Hi, I am writing this to get some feedback and thoughts, hopefully from people who have had first hand experience with being poly and either being in the military, or being involved with someone in the military (The US military). I am married and in a poly relationship with my husband. The...

Thanks Emm, for this clarification. I'm referring to the US military. Which as far as I know, is more strict and conservative about these kinds of things. I should post my specific concerns in another place, but it's something on my mind :)

Hi everyone, New here, just got on this week. My husband and I have been talking about poly for approximately a year, and actively open for about 9 months of that time. We each have a partner outside of our relationship and it's going wonderfully so far. I am most interested in topics related...