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I’d point out that there is a presumptive requirement of productivity to the question that may benefit from review. Expectation management is a pretty big deal for both parties and it sounds like she needs healing and may not be capable of productivity. Timing does matter and healing can drag...

Yes! I got to be vulnerable and never felt judged harshly or found wanting or anything that had so jaded me for so long. I couldn’t believe it. Still can’t some days, but it’s still early ;) It definitely takes a lot of work and honesty is not always comfortable, but if you’re into that sort of...

My journey had a very similar backstory, ie strict religious upbringings, but I always found the idea of a soulmate to fulfill every possible social, emotional, and sexual need of a person to be so impossible as to be intellectually dishonest. From there and with the help of witnessing my...

That sounds like a lovely, loving intro to the concept! I’m happy you have such kind, generous people in your life. I met my GF on a non-traditional-relationship-friendly dating app, and we while we were both open to a more serious relationship, we weren’t initially looking. I found the...

Hi there! I’m also very new, but that’s exciting! I love learning new things. I have so many questions, but the mods will be along shortly to point you towards a bevy of helpful resources, so I’ll try and stick to being nosy. I really want to know what your friends said 🤭

Dealer’s choice! This handle is on a variety of platforms if you feel like a scavenger hunt ;)

Oh no, please, wax nostalgic all you like! I have an ancient copy of Tomb of Horrors I’m particularly fond of. I’ve never played any edition older than 4th, but I love some crunchy RPG talk.

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Not Hudson Valley, but NNJ if that counts

Where can I send in my application?

Fantasies, while often safely ignored, can often be rooted in actual, deep-seated desire. Maybe it’s something you want to see in your life, maybe it’s just a fun thought. If you want your life to look a certain way, make moves to change it so that it more aligns with your desires. If you’re...

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Your Interests turn my brain on. I would love to chat about writing, game design, horror, worldbuilding, all of it. I’ve been a Game Master for table top role playing games for over a decade, just started working on my first manuscript, have been building worlds and designing TTRPG game systems...

New Jersey born and raised. Nigh-40 father who’s carefully extricating himself from an unhealthy marriage. Happily dating a happily married woman and thrilled to be exploring non-monogamy, unfettered by societal or spousal judgement. Looking for friends, community, and people to play DnD with.