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It would be more than just sexual, it would be emotionally involved too. I am not wired to just have casual sex.

I totally understand and admit that I suggested he be with others to save me from my own guilt. I wouldn’t want to ‘inflict’ that on other women. He does have a very small penis (under 4 inches and not even a little thick) and his other skills are not very good either. So I totally...

I suppose you are right in that sense. When I did mention that I would also want him to be with others, he did perk up a bit, and I could almost sense some relief at that point, which did allow our conversations to flow more easily and naturally.

Thank you for that clarification. That makes a lot more sense. I told him that much, that if I was going to be with others there would be feelings involved. I do not have emotionless sex, if that makes sense. He understands and seems very open to that. It is mostly due to a few things. He lacks...

By this lifestyle I mean an open marriage. We have discussed seeing other people. At first it was him just wanting me to be with others, but I told him my guilt would be too overwhelming if it was just me doing this and not him, so I was able to have him consider being with others, as well. My...

Hi all, Very new here. I am a married mom of two. My husband and I have discussed opening our marriage after a couple of years of conversation around it. I have finally come around to opening up to the idea. I am looking for advice and conversation with others who have experience in this...

Thank you so much @kdt26417 I will certainly take a look at everything you shared!

Thank you!

I can only imagine. Again, I wish I could add something helpful from experience but I cannot. Just be kind to yourself throughout this. There are no good or bad decisions, just decisions and it matters how we view them in context

I can feel the rawness of your emotions in that message and I am so sorry you’re feeling that way. Admittedly I do not have any experience in this but it is always important to try to focus on the positives. You built and had a great thing and while circumstances are changing you have memories...

This is a much deeper question that it might sound on the surface. I, too, am unsure if a ‘soulmate’ necessarily exists. I’d have to be completely connected with myself first and know myself much more honestly than I do now to consider the possibility

That first link you shared is super helpful. Thank you very much for sharing that!

Wow! That sounds intense and messy indeed. My husband and I are considering an ENM ‘lifestyle’ and stories like this gives me pause. My first question would be, how are you feeling? How are you doing personally with all of this? I understand it’s a lot, but how is your mental health through...

Good morning all. Newbie here looking for guidance and advice as my husband and I are considering an open relationship for a number of reasons Admittedly I am ignorant to this so please excuse my naivety but I am looking forward to meeting and connecting with kind hearted people here My name...