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I completely agree. Also, a massage to help turn your brain off, even if it is for only 50 minutes, would probably help. I would recommend a Swedish, relaxation massage over a deep tissue in order to get you to relax for a while. Also, make sure you are eating lots of green leafy things, drink...

Agreed.

Nice to meet you too! In addition to what @kdt26417 has posted, I also highly recommend this site: https://www.multiamory.com/start-here Very, very good, in depth podcasts and information to be had there.

I'm sorry, but I am not following you. Are you implying that because you said: that is a FACT and not merely your opinion? Because if that is the case, that is simply not true and I think you are doing a disservice to the OP.

Welcome to the board! :)

I don't suppose you happen to have any statistics for this assertion? Because even a cursory Google search indicates otherwise: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/close-encounters/201510/the-top-10-relationship-deal-breakers...

Hi, and welcome to the forum! In addition to what @kdt26417 and @Evie have said, I also recommend this podcast by the Multiamory folks: https://www.multiamory.com/start-here I would also take your time in making the leap into this. It's a lot of information to take in and digest, so there...

I am terribly sorry to hear about your dad. Please take care of yourself and I wish you peace.

I cannot add anything else that everyone else has not already told you. Other than to say that I am sorry this happened to you and I hope you find peace and better opportunities for more meaningful relationships.

Ok, first of all. Deep, deep, deep breath. Then do it again. :) Now then. I guess the question is what do YOU yourself want? If you don't know, that is perfectly fine. A lot of us don't, we just pretend to. :) Does the decision for the overnight need to be made right now? If so, ask your...

This is a big ask not only for other people, but for yourself as well. It's a lot to take in and manage and finally, navigate through. I would cut yourself a bit of slack. After all, Rome was not built in a day. :)

This is my question: what ELSE has she not taken into consideration? And what OTHER partners' thoughts/feelings/boundaries is this one going to ignore as she just railroads and runs over those same thoughts/feelings/boundaries like it ain't no thang? Because I was under the impression that when...

Yep! Because here we all are. :)

Welcome to the forum! @kdt26417 always gives good places to start. I would also add this: https://www.multiamory.com/start-here It is a podcast covering all sorts of topics in polyamory. It's nice to listen to at night or when you are cleaning house or whatever. I would also take your time...

Either or. But imo, it needs to happen if she prizes her bodily autonomy over the consent of everyone involved.

Please know that I am not taking the piss out of you on this, you have my full support and agreement with this statement. :) I am going to go here and say and/or the boyfriend decides to run for the exit sign when she actually does get pregnant. Because let's not pretend like that has never...

If that is the case, she needs to divorce him. Like, yesterday. Yes, you have bodily autonomy, but if you enter into a relationship with someone there are expectations whether people find that fact convenient or not.

Thank you! :love:

With all due respect, the wife has the following choices in this matter: 1. Comply with the husband's quite reasonable request 2. Close the marriage until after she and DH have popped out the number of children they want 3. Divorce. Because as of right now, her posts read as if she is...

There are also possible health concerns involved. Genetics are a mfer and the child, who one day will grow into an adult, may want to know not only paternity, but any possible negative heath concerns by DNA sequencing. Not to mention the fact that word WILL get out that Mom doesn't know the...