Search results

I'm glad that there have been some revelations and more openness. I think people in relationships should take regular communication classes (at least twice a year) because many couples believe their communication is good when it's not. Constantly seeking avenues to broaden those lines of...

It can work but everyone has to have a clear understanding of how they want it to work, their boundaries and comfort zones, and most importantly, the relationship must be secure and thoroughly communicative. It definitely can be scary terrain in the beginning. This is a great forum to explore...

Looks like you two have set foot on the path. I look forward to watching your journey unfold.

Sending loads of strength, support, and love as your journeys continues. ~~~~~~~

Well, I hope it all works out for you guys. *hugs*

One thing that is constantly reiterated in guidelines of open relationships is to address the issue in your relationship prior to branching out because branching out is not going to solve the problem. If your goal is to continue with a loving, growing relationship, you guys must mutually agree...

It really bothers me when people don't understand that it is unhealthy to try to jump right into a friendship after their emotional/intimate relationship has ended. The best way to get over someone is to let them go completely, go through your healing process, and then come back to the middle...

TL4- you're funny. I understand what you mean, though. It doesn't break my heart to read the issues in others' relationships because I accept it as a reality and, without issues, there is no growth, there is no mirror to evaluate self in, there is no light at the end of the tunnel... I look...

Hey...I think I read the cross post already. :(. Glad everything is well. :)

Hmm...A is in a mono now, huh, and only really has a few month timeframe on his relationships? He doesn't seem like someone that would be good for either style, imo, but I am glad he is obtaining what he desires ... I guess. Great to stay firm with E about the testing. I just don't get why...

HIya Thanks for sharing, Charlie. I was just introduced to you after reading Rarechild's posting so I am very glad to find something in your own words. Your thought process is definitely a breath of fresh air. I look forward to watching your journey.

Glad you had a nice visit home. Upcoming dates are always exciting!

Well, that's a start and a great thing. Congrats on your semester! Yea...I'm not too busy but I plan on busying myself with real life socializing so I am making a conscious effort to take a hiatus from OKc and fb. I am keeping up with this site and my blogspot subscriptions but that's it. Take...

Thanks for sharing, Rarechild. It is beautiful when it all comes together and as long as we remember that we are ever-evolving, thereby, involved in an ever-evolving journey, we can continue to grow in our circumstances and, hopefully, burst anew with more love, insight, unity, and freedom. The...

This posting about Leo and his wife sounds just like my male partner (now inactive) and his wife. This is the exact issue or set of issues that led to where we are now, which is not together, as of this week. Everything you mentioned above is the same. They've been together for a long time (10...

That is beautiful, Mo. You guys got married on my birthday! I am glad that you two have held on even through times that seemed to be really foggy. I'm sure your day will be special no matter what since your partnership is renewed and you are entering another year of growing, learning, and...

Hugs Sorry about your ordeal today. It just may be for the best. It is hurtful when people you have confided in use the information you have shared to belittle you or judge you. I hope things look up for you and you can take this in stride.

I don't think it makes a different either way. As Van said, it's really about the person you find.

Welcome to the forum. I'm sure, if you browse through using tag words, you will find a lot of useful information.

Today is a New Day I, first, want to thank all of those who find the time to stop by and read my blog. I know all of our schedules are full and, when we do find the time, we are greeted by these long ass rants and updates we tend to post :p making us second guess if we Really have the time to...