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    Been listening, time to start talking.

    :) ... welcome to the forum. This sounds like the beginning of a beautiful journey for you. I look forward to watching it unfold.
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    A smile and a hello :)

    Welcome
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    Hello from Frisco, TX

    I agree with somegeezer. I would also take some time to really do a fair amount of research on polyamorous relationships to see if that is really what you want and if it is something your wife is willing to accept because, if she is not in the loop and accepting, it's no longer classifed as...
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    help!....new and confused

    Welcome to the forum. If you must have a label, you could identify as poly, though, I would hold off on the identifiers until you actually try a poly relationship out. Solely having sex with others is not poly. I also would make sure that you and your partner have sat down and thoroughly...
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    Hmmmm what do I say?

    Welcome to the forum. It's really all up to you and your partners. I'm sure you understand open and clear communication is very important in helping you decide these matters. To find out what works for each partner, no better way is available then asking them. Sit down with your primary and...
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    Hello People

    Welcome. I hope the demise of the current relationship turns out to be reflective and progressive. Some people implement the same scenarios expecting different results because they don't take the time to gain insight in many instances. I, also, hope the end is not an ugly one. I look forward...
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    Hello everyone!

    Well, sounds like you have a lot going on and will definitely be in need of some self-reflection and radical honesty in the near future regarding your second partner and the possible third. Welcome to the forum. It's a great place to vent, get feedback, or voyeur. :)
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    Hello from the East Coast

    That's what it's all about, ultimately, love and growth. Welcome to the forum.
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    Xanax in the morning. Prozac in the evening.

    lol@neonkaos. Welcome to the forum, precise, and I'm glad it's working out for you in an approach that works for you.
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    Lurker making an introduction

    Welcome to the forum. I'm Shana Eklctc on fb if you want to add. I look forward to you sharing the difficulties you are currently facing with your partner. I'm sure you can find stories in this forum that are identical to some of the issues and may find some good advice to implement. This forum...
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    New member

    @somegeezer...and, now, I know. :P Welcome, Julie.
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    Is a Stinky Dwarf!

    Welcome to the forum.
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    Hi

    Somegeezer pretty much summed it up in the statement, 'There are as many ways ...'. There are so many variations available so you can customize your relationship to your needs. What I can tell you as a former poly triad to triad vee partner, one of the most difficult components to this...
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    Mono in a poly relationship

    I would also add a deep understanding of yourself is the most important thing before you can even begin to have an understanding of another. Additionally, we are ever changing beings so you have to be open to those chapters. Your perception of things is also very important, especially, when your...
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    Forever Eklctc

    Still Trying to Figure It Out I’m going to start writing out my internal ramblings in hopes that they make more sense or form a better connection visually than they are doing roaming around in my mind. So I managed to broach the topic of the relationship with P last night but we didn’t really...
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    This is a lot of work. (TP's story, when she feels like updating)

    I agree that your posts are one to look forward to and I do not believe it is in poor taste to share the joys off your life at this point. I know many of us came here seeking advice but that quickly turns into a forum to share your daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly story in all its glory and...
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    Which way to turn?

    Most times, you shouldn't look for the 'right' things to say. As someone else mentioned, just being there, showing you are a support, whatever his course, speaks volumes more than voicing your opinion or sharing words that may be more emotion-driven than reasoning right now. I think your...
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    Accidentally Poly - The Karma Story.

    ({hugging you very tightly yet tenderly})
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    Accidentally Poly - The Karma Story.

    Complete with Ariakas in the learning arena. I can process advancement through reading but I am much better if it involves hands-on, so to speak.
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    Accidentally Poly - The Karma Story.

    I'm glad you have decided to use this forum to sort through your thoughts and, also, allow us to see deeper into your world. As Mohegan said, keep moving forward. I look forward to watching your journey. Positive and healing vibes coming your way~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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