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Thank you for sharing so openly. I think, if we are all realistic people, we know that everything isn't always flowing smoothly in your world and, in order for the relationship to grow and continue to work, you must be pushed, challenged, tried. That is how we gain, in these instances. That is...

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I've discovered ... something As I have been sifting through my emotions and thoughts, I have uncovered something. I realize that I don't feel like I am a priority for P. I mean, I know I am not 'the' priority but even as a secondary I still have the right to some prioritizing, don't I? I...

Finally Home & More After five weeks of business travel, I am finally home for a spill. My last week of travel wasn't so bad but, since it was very short notice, I wasn't prepared for (or moreso in the mood for) socializing and company, though, I did extend an invitation to a couple of people...

Welcome to the forum. I'm glad you have began to work out many of the kinks of learned relationship behavior and are working towards open, honest, and loving relationships. This is a great forum to gain insight and share your own journey.

Welcome to the forum. What else have you guys done besides discussing it? Are you guys coming from a completely traditional path?

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Welcome to the forum. It's a beautiful thing we you can maintain a beautiful thing, isn't it? I have question. WHY did you decide to get married being 'true' polys, as it were?

I don't think you are a coward. I think you just have to break through the feeling of needing to be 'accepted' which is a concept that affects the lives, lifestyles, and openness of Many people. As a person who broke free of those conditions a long time ago ... I still can understand. It's a...

My Travels Continued After spending 5-1/2 days in Milwaukee, then 12-1/2 days in Chicago, I am now in Atlanta for 6-1/2 days all for business. It's been a fiasco, to say the least, and I've been missing out on loads of quality time with P. He occupies himself and seems to handle it well but I...

Original Post re: relationship concerns Contd... 10/31/10 At this point, I can't help but take the admittance of her not being physically attracted to me (even though, what she said was, she wasn't as physically attracted to me as I was to her-whatever the fuck that means) personally. I take it...

Original Post re:relationship concerns I'm just combining posts so that all of my story is here in my blog. This post may duplicate some of the information posted previously which was a snapshot of the situation. 10/25/10 I am in a polyamorous relationship with a couple. My official...

@1uncagedbird- :)...Glad I can share some knowledge and encourage someone to ponder the possibilities. That's why I love this site. There are so many opportunties to share and learn.

I'm glad you two were able to talk and bring out other topics that also needed to be addressed and I'm glad you were able to fully express your concerns. :) Sending you loads of strength, healing energy, and some of my manual assistance for your errands today~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~:D

Completely understandable about Indigo. I'm glad the experience was better than what Mr. A prepared himself for. *sigh* The world can definitely put a crack in our snowglobe at times. Many many warm wishes coming your way~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Thank you for that. I did think of discussing it with him but, being that this is their very first poly experience and not mine, I'm a little leary because I think he makes sure he emphasizes (a bit too much) that H is the primary part of the equation and that it is 'them' versus 'him', etc and...

My sentiments exactly. Totally agreed. I'm so sorry, M. Seems like there is a lot going on and, truly, seems like he does have something else going on with him which is causing him to be inconsiderate of your needs and feelings right now. You are absolutely correct, though, and I just hope you...

Welcome to the forum. You should work on shaking that 'weird' feeling. :) You are beautifully and lovingly unique and you can have all that you desire as long as you are willing to communicate and persevere. :D I look forward to watching your journey.

Welcome to the forum. You explained it just find...and without sounding mean or rude! I know...many people take being candid and honest as such but ...you're good with us! uh...I Do understand sex without feeling but I don't prefer it. Of course, we know, we can't open our emotions to everyone...