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Welcome to the forum. I was born in San Antonio. I look forward to watching your journey.

I spend time in the cemetary. Not because I know someone there but because walking into and through a cemetary is like stepping through a vail. The energy within the confines of a cemetary is noticeably different. I treat cemetaries like parks. I sit out on the grass and eat a sandwich, write...

Congrats! Beautiful vows too. I'm glad it was brilliant! I'm also glad Mr. A was able to find some comfort at the wedding being able to hang with some people who weren't given him the 'eyebrow'. :) Luckily, whenver I unite with someone, I'm so open with my life that my partners can introduce...

*hugs* You know we, as women, always seem to be more considerate of the needs of others including quality time, assistance, feelings, etc. so I do understand. Yes, That is the assumption I am referring to. 'Marriage' doesn't allow for more courtesy. The relationship and actions in them do not...

I must have misunderstood. I interpreted your statements to mean that you needed help with the things you needed to do prior to going out of town, regardless of the condition of your arm. My apologies.

Totally agree!!!! So...my inquiry is what happens with the level of this jealousy when your girl decides to solidify her emotions and pursue the permanent relationship with the other guy? I guess my question is can the excitement of the jealousy in this phase pose a problem when the situation...

@1uncagedbird...it's funny you should say that. I've always viewed soulmates differently than most people and I believe many people have a misconception of what the term soulmate really entails. I solidified what I believed soulmates to be in early 2000 when I was studying meditation with the...

Welcome to the forum! Sending you loads of loving and embracing vibes, first and foremost~~~~~~ I don't live in Illinois but I am currently in Illinois (Evanston/Chicago) for the week.

Wow...*hugs* then *cleansing breath together* On one hand, I can completely understand you being upset. On the other hand, I say you should have communicated what you may have needed or desired today, yesterday. YES...he could have inquired about your needs as well and, if it were me, I would...

I totally agree with Mohegan. Sucks the dream presented itself again but it's great to be able to wake up and face your current reality! I actually have the opposite issue...I have been experiencing a blockage of dream memory for about two years now. I used to recall most of my dreams...

Travel & Updates Eklctc's last adventure left you feeling melancholy and irritated.;) Hopefully, we can invoke some brighter emotions this time around. Hiya alllll!!! I've missed you. I've been so exhausted from work and traveling that I have done a poor job of keeping up. I have successfully...

I'm just now popping in on your first entry. I have yet to visit the links you provided but will when I have more time. I really enjoy OKcupid. I've been a member since, I want to say, late December 2009 or January 2010. I originally joined it solely for the questions and quizzes since I...

Seems like the decisions in this relationship are not mutual ones which, for me, means being engaged for five years is a good thing. Communication, desires, and tolerances really need to be discussed because, from my viewpoint, the relationship between the two main partners isn't anywhere near...

I would agree that thorough communication is in order, but I do not believe there should be any issue with setting boundaries. Polyamorous relationships are not about sex, so if you believe your partner is the type who can seek sex first before the relationship, maybe being polyamorous is not...

Welcome, Robin. This is a great forum to find information and people that can relate to you. Additionally, you now have 'us' to talk to...outside of the tangle. :D

Welcome to the forum. There is loads of information on this sight and a bunch of enlightening people. I look forward to watching your journey.

Hi, NYCindie. I consider myself a solo poly person. If I had to define my current relationship type, it would be viewed as a vee with me and the wife of my partner being close to the very top of the legs. But I don't choose to label many things. I am in a relationship with a married man whose...

Congrats, Indigo & TP! Unfortunately, the point you made about women not sharing well tends to be so true, many times, at the denial of most said women. smh...I'm sure you will eventually run across another special woman to expand your family with. Until then, I'm sure, you will continue to...

How wonderful. I look forward to watching your journey. It sounds like a very promising and enjoyable situation and, though we know bumps shall arise, you have the right mindset about it. I would leave my mind open to the possibilities. You never know what your lover will ultimately want. He may...

Thank for posting. There is plenty to learn in the experience and, thereby, plenty of room to become more familiar with yourself and grow. I look forward to watching your journey.