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Very helpful points thank you. I take the cuddling after as a sign of contentment, not that I require it. I enjoy the sex personally, but her demeanor after sex was not so positive and we talked about it right away as she was feeling confused about things afterwards. So there is definitely...

Thanks for your reply man Specifically speaking, I am referring to the time before she and her boyfriend started being intimate. As far as the sex is concerned she still climaxes several times so I satisfy her in that regard it is just she doesn't seem to be into it that much. Like we didn't...

Will things continue to get better? I don't know. Hey man how's it going? My relationship is going really well, my wife is wonderful and the only reason we're still together is because I know she still loves me and wants to be with me. I have come to a stage in this process where I can finally...

Thank you so much for that informative advice I will really consider all you've said. I take my dog on walks to sort through these things in my head. I had one other thing not sex related, but that I am dealing with if you don't mind. My wife and this other guy are both extroverts in such a...

Hey, having a struggle today. Hey guys I know it has been a while and things have been going along alright. I had a bit of a break down not to long ago feelings were hurt and my marriage almost ended but I located the source of the problem and we are on the road to recovery. My wife does not...

Holy shit thank you for that perspective. I'm so busy thinking of my fears that I'm forgetting all of those wonderful things. I am an extreme introvert and my wife is an extrovert so I have always fought to have my me tone which I now get as much of add I need. Our have had become...

The ironic thing is that I have no reason to believe any of my fears will come to pass. My wife loves me and apparently blabs this to her boyfriend who is also a good friend of mine. We three all get along and that is why my wife says this can work for us. The other night my wifes boyfriend...

I know you and I are on opposite sides of this being that I am the husband, I could use some advice on how to deal with the image of my wife having sex with another man. It plays in my head and I know they want it. It hasn't yet happened but I think about it all the time and it tries me up in...

I'm just so scared despite all the reassurances and intimacy lately and reminders of I love you, that she is going to pull away from me. And once they have sex things are going to change. Ahh I'm so messed up.

Thanks for that. For all the posts this far. I'm really dealing with a lot right now and just when I think I'm fine my anxiety kicks in and I start to go to some really dark places. I'm struggling with scary scenarios right now and I just don't know how to deal with them. I fear the worst...

I mean can people develop romantic feelings for another person like this? Can people develop these feelings for another without losing the feelings they have for their husband? Is this okay?

Messed up in my head again Hey guys, I know the conversation has progressed since I last posted, but I am at your mercy again. Things have been going so well for us lately I feel like our marriage has been getting stronger. Everyone is open and honest and loving, but I lost sight of that...

Thank you so much for that.

So you don't think I should be hear about their excitement at this new relationship. I mean It's not like I don't know what is going on when I'm not around. I just struggle to get it out of my head when I think about them. I want like a box to place it in my head so It won't bother me, some kind...

Yeah, everybody including him is really open and honest and we just have never had secrets. I don't really want that degree of openness to change. And neither does my wife she likes to be able to confide in me about their relationship and vice versa about my relationship with my wife to him.

jealousy Hey guys, things have been going well for the most part, but today I think i'm dealing with jealousy, but I"m not sure. Whenever my wife talks about the two of them she explains how people assume they are dating because how close and goofy in love they are. I'm not sure how to deal...

Thank you. Oh wow, thank you so much for your response. All of this support is so helpful and I am starting to feel relaxed. I know a lot of the things I have said may bring one to believe that my marriage might not be very strong but I'm here to say the opposite I've have a very strong...

Coming to grips Thanks I just need to hear that it is not one who will overshadow the next. I'm just so insecure but it's not based on anything that my wife has ever said to me. She tells me that we have an awesome sex life and that this will enhance our own sex life. I'm just scared I guess...

The Deed Thanks for your kind response and support. The date for the deed to be done has not been established yet. I do know that she will let me know and we may talk about it as we have no secrets. I don't know how to deal with these overwhelming pains i get in my gut. Like today I asked if...

Hello, I am so grateful for this forum because I am desperate. A week ago my wife confessed to me her feelings for a good friend of ours. They both have been talking about this for a while. Nothing happened behind my back except feelings that were never sought after but developed. This week...