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    All I do is cry myself to sleep. I know I should not have gone through their messages. My anger got in the way. When I read it, I was broken... some of the things she said... I couldn't believe it... If this is how she truly feels, then why is she still with me? I asked her that and her...
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    Well, when you you're the life if the party and drinks are on you. then you have friends... sober up and they all disappear. Since I've been sober I am socially awkward. I can't talk to people and when I do I come across as aggressive. I apparently have a very serious face. I don't know how to...
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    I don't know what I want, I don't understand being in a poly relationship. I don't know what to do...thank you for letting me express myself, I don't have any one to talk to ...you guys are amazing
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    This was very hard to hear, because its true, you learn to face your mistakes and take ownership in AA. Yes, I did abuse her, I admit that, I would verbally abuse her, manipulate her, I would apologise and when I said I wouldn't do it again, I did....she does deserve much better. She has stood...
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    Did I cross boundaries when I downloaded their chat? I did it again. My wife told her that because I haven't given her attention for so long, she doesn't want it. She literally said, "I hate it when she holds me. I feel violated." Then the girlfriend said, "Push her away and tell her you...
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    What is NRE?
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    Thank you, Kevin. The thing is, when I tried to tell her, she said I was taking her happiness away. I'm not innocent. I've put her through hell over the years with my drinking. But I've been sober and attending meetings for 3 years. I feel like she plans these things behind my back and then...
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    It's a really long story. I don't even know where to start. Right now, I have a situation. We have had a poly relationship before, but she messed us up. She has fallen in love with my wife and my wife with her. This women suggested a poly relationship, because I could not give her the attention...
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    Hi all, Listen, I need serious advice on being in a poly relationship. I read up on it and there are some red flags. If there is anyone with experience in being in a poly relationship, could you please help me?
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