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That's the euphemism of the year. What exactly does the word "free" mean when used that way? How could someone be less free than in such a situation? If the consequence of an action is to loose ones dearest, you are in no way "free" to act. It's fine for me (of course - I am far away :-) ) for...

Wow. That's so true. Let three months pass and everything looks better and more normal again.

Hi Danielsen, if she asks you to hug her but you don't feel much like it, you would do it anyway, right? Just do not hurt her and be nice. That's how we are - I see much of myself in your statements. And now you think your wife is similar. THAT'S probably NOT TRUE. Others ARE different. And we...

I am wondering what that means: "redefining our sex lifes". Do you know it? The immediate question after the act, how it was for the other is not such a great idea imho. She is also responsible for her experience and if she misses something she should tell you by herself. The lack of attention...

But how should someone know what they want without knowing what it is really about and having tried it? Does the 'physically' thick feeling go away? Under what circumstances? For me it went away at the moment my wife confessed her love to another man but I still saw the love to me in her eyes...

Polyamory on OkCupid But how to communicate polyamory through your profile? At the moment I have set my relationship status to "in an open relationship" and relationship type to "mostly non-monogamous" and also made a search for non-monogamous people. The result is just a single profile in...

You get a very good answer to that question if you check out a thread that I have started recently. I was astonished by the responses I got, especially from the women here: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=73898 Spontaneity might be hampered. Time will tell you if that really...

Most, if not all, women have an incredibly increased libido with a new partner. They have sex a lot it it helps them to establish the new bond. Be aware that they are still struggling for something YOU have already. Therefore: *Don't take the sex as a measurement about how well your...

As long as there is no reasonable chance that his name is disclosed and linked to this forum this fear seems a bit unrealistic to me. What would be his reaction, if he finds out what you have written about him (apart from the poly issue)? Would he be fine with it, because you struggle to find...

Mh. Why don't you give his name, being 'William Moulton Marston'? He is already listed in the link I have given above ;-). The book you have mentioned definitely seems worth a read, though.

My wife told me about her cheating 8 weeks ago completely in distress and dispair about what to do now. By then I was already in jealousy for 3 months because I've seen him coming closer and feared to be replaced soon but she kept telling me about "close friend" or even "brother". Anyway, the...

There is an impressive list of history persons practicing polyamory at the end of the German polyamory article in Wikipedia: http://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory

Thanks for all those great comments. It's a help really. It's my first thread and I love that forum already :-) And yes, I agree - in general it's true that my part of the cake didn't get smaller, just the cake got bigger in many areas, in terms of sex a LOT even. Therefore, countint really...

thanks tenK. Turns out, it was the right way to go ;-)

That's right in way, surely. But it was not the qutestion ;-) The number of occasions where his drama is being accepted is already closing. This applies to me and to our hinge as well. And he was urged enought to seek for professional - appointment is already made.

My loved one went off to my metamour on a day that was actually planned just for the two of us, sex including. However metamour put up drama and loved one felt forced to go over for two hours to bring him down. Now I am wondering a) did they had sex? - wonderful way for calming down a man b) am...