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(((hugs))) I hope you and Rider can work together and figure out what is best for both of you, whatever that looks like.

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Fuck my life, y'all. Seriously. I learned something about Draper ... Not from him.... From a Google search... Shit. I feel like the world's biggest idiot. I was so desperate to have someone tell me I'm pretty and make me feel special. At least I didn't go home with him. But even though we...

KC, I have to admit, my first thought reading your post was, "beer flavored cum! best of both worlds!" :p On the Draper thing.. You know, I don't think it would have bugged me nearly as much of he hadn't made such a big deal about not wanting casual sex. It was really hard not to make a comment...

So I'm going to interrupt the girl talk with a bit of real life... I'm supposed to meet Draper tonight for dinner, we were texting this morning to firm up plans. And he mentions "if we decide to go somewhere after" with a bunch of wink emojis. :cool: I am just nowhere near ready for getting...

This is what hanging out with my girlfriends is like... Except we don't drink tea, we drink beer ;) But I feel like somewhere along the way I stopped making new close enough to talk like this girlfriends. In high school and college, I had gaggles of girls to talk with about sex. Now I just talk...

When Andy gets home I'm going to ask him... As the only person with knowledge of my insides to whom I'm still speaking ;) ... But he has explained it as there being places at the very top that i go crazy for. Like my cervix is not at the top center exactly, but what is there, is very fun. Also...

Ugh on the squirting trend. Yeah, I don't squirt, either, at least not in the sense of gush a half gallon of clear fluid. There is a release of wetness, but 1) it's about a teaspoon and 2) it's like regular vaginal fluid, the natural lube my body makes, not watery clear stuff. With all the...

@Spork... I think lambskin doesn't protect against stis as well ... Viruses are much smaller than sperm, so tiny they can pass through. At least that was the story when I took sex ed a billion years ago. Amen to the fingers. That's what I usually ask for if I can't get off because condom...

I wonder if they could do iv sedation for the biopsy... Like they do for wisdom teeth extraction and colonoscopies. Much less risk than general and can be done at a doctor's office. But you are out and don't remember a thing. (And if you are me, you wake up stoned off your ass and say dumb...

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10/09/g-spot-vaginal-orgasm-myth_n_5947930.html There were a bunch of articles like this around the same time... I get the need to reassure women who don't orgasm from penetration or enjoy stimulation in that spot, but geez, you don't have to flip it and tell...

So this has been very, very, very eye opening for me. One of the things that has always puzzled me a little about non monogamy (whether it's poly or swinging or whatever) is that... It frequently involves condoms, and I have always wondered why anyone who could get awesome bare sex at home...

Omg yes. Not *always*... I think it depends on how deep inside (shallower easier to feel) and maybe angle??? And also, um, volume. But damn. That is honestly the number one thing I miss not having piv with my husband. That and the feel of naked skin inside me. The heat, the friction, I dunno...

Life is quiet. In a good way :) Andy and I spent Friday and Saturday nights battling over the temperature in the cabin... I'd turn the heater up, he'd turn it down as soon as I was asleep. Both of us sleep deprived and pissy by Sunday. Then I got out of the shower to find him blasting Angel of...

The pressure feeling is ... Ah, it's so weird. I'm so weird. I don't feel any hesitation or uncertainty about agreeing not to seek out other partners for myself. I'm really a one-sex-partner-at-a-time type at heart. Every time I've found myself craving new and different, it's been a situation...

Knowledge is power, right? ;) I have a MUCH easier time digging through the bad code and worms and gremlins when it's simply an exercise in self understanding - with no expectations that I will do things differently based on what I discover. It's helpful to know that memories of trying to...

On to the part that did help me :) One thing the book mentioned was that if you find yourself having a truly disproportionate reaction to something - a 10 where you think a rational reaction would be a 3, say - you might be triggering something in your past rather than reacting to the current...

I finished The Jealousy Workbook the other day... There were a few really helpful parts, but the book seemed written for long term couples opening up, and most of the coping strategies were only applicable to that situation. Kinda disappointing, as I don't feel much jealousy around Andy's other...

We met for happy hour last Thursday ... He's truly Draper-esque, with his ability to make you feel like you are the most beautiful woman in the world. I don't believe for a minute that he's really as head over heels for me as he pretends, after one date, but it feels nice even still to be...

So, the new guy ... I'm going to call him Draper, after Don of Madmen, because he has the same job title. And because he's swoon worthy :o I haven't written much because I'm scared to jinx things - he's amazing and he's looking for exactly the kind of simple, heavy on the romance and fun, light...