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  1. Dagferi

    Stuck

    Look she got her information about you from HIM. Your anger is misplaced. He is the issue here not your metamour.
  2. Dagferi

    Polite “no thank you”?

    Women behave just as badly in the dating world of not worse. I had a woman Murf went on 2 dates with before he even met me flip the fuck out when we got together. It ended up being a 4 year orderal for he and I. From psychotic messages to both of us. To her making catfish facebook profiles to...
  3. Dagferi

    New to polyamory dating.

    Please read this.... https://davidlnoble.livejournal.com/176039.html
  4. Dagferi

    Your partner's ethics . . .

    One of the most important things to me is my integrity. I do not have people in my life including my own family whose ethics do not mesh up with mine.
  5. Dagferi

    Opening up marriage

    The only troubles I had was with my husband Butch and I not being compatible in the kink dept. Nothing poly too related. But I am a hinge who does not allow other relationships bleed over. I did not allow NRE to go to my head. I did not give one partner power over the other. Honestly most...
  6. Dagferi

    Opening up marriage

    I opened a monogamous marriage. No we never did a threesome. I have been in my current configuration for 6 years.
  7. Dagferi

    Shifting dynamics and metamor issues

    Actually you should be mad at H he has been a sloppy hinge. The conflict between you and your metamour IS his creation.
  8. Dagferi

    Your partner's ethics . . .

    I do not have partners whose ethics do not mesh up with my own.
  9. Dagferi

    Monogamous heartbreak in a Poly relationship

    Op this is not how healthy polyamory works. You were dating a couple and just didn't know it.
  10. Dagferi

    My boyfriend told me to break up with my other partner

    I would be dumping Matt to be honest. You are NOT responsible for his insecurities and issues. I would not tolerate the ultimatum of "I am going to kill myself". First of all if he honestly meant ot then he needs help. Second if he "just said it because he is upset" that is a pretty fucked up...
  11. Dagferi

    Polyamory and Parenting

    I just hope that Glasses' parents will not say negative things about you, Glasses, or Ponytail in front of or to the children.
  12. Dagferi

    Polyamory and Parenting

    1. What issues (if any) did your polyamorous lifestyle create for your children? None. But my children are like me relatively private people. We are open but not in your face with our lifestyle. 2. What proactive measures (if any) did you take to ensure that any negative issues were...
  13. Dagferi

    Poly dating as a couple

    https://davidlnoble.livejournal.com/176039.html You have some.reading and research to do first... Btw no seasoned stable or sane poly person in their right mind will date a couple who will only date as a couple. If they are smart they will run far away imo.
  14. Dagferi

    Jealousy, Envy, WTF

    Why is it an issue that your bf see his other partner if you canceled on him? He isn't replacing you he is using his now free time to see someone whom he cares about also. Would you be upset with a friend who decided to spend time with another friend if you cancelled on them? I work fulltime...
  15. Dagferi

    Poly Justification for love triangle

    NO you have the hard conversation with your wife first!
  16. Dagferi

    Poly Justification for love triangle

    Stop having an emotional affair on your wife and have the tough conversation. Or stop with the other woman.
  17. Dagferi

    Considering divorce over Polyamory

    Starz what you husband is doing is NOT polyamory. He is a cheater using Polyamory to justify his cheating. I am poly and I have NEVER cheated on a partner.
  18. Dagferi

    Jealousy, Envy, WTF

    KC... I have PTSD, anxiety, and depression. It sucks. You need to find something outside your husband and boyfriend to fill the void and quiet the voices of loathing and self doubt. I too do not get along with many women. I do not hate or distrust women my hobbies do not typically attract...
  19. Dagferi

    Jealousy, Envy, WTF

    https://thoughtcatalog.com/rose-goodman/2017/03/love-shouldnt-be-so-hard/
  20. Dagferi

    Lots of change all at once

    I am Batman.
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