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  1. polychronopolous

    More of me trying to understand

    Does he say, or do, anything to show you he loves you and values you in his life?
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    What are you listening to now?

    Peter Murphy - Marlene Dietrich's Favourite Poem Because....... Peter Murphy. https://youtu.be/DV2U20VLDK8
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    More of me trying to understand

    Understanding why you might want to leave is not equal to wanting you to leave, nor is it the same as being happy you were gone. He'd live if you were not together, but so would you. I doubt he would be at all happy if you were to decide you didn't want to be with him.
  4. polychronopolous

    "ethical polyamory"

    I agree with what you are saying, there is an assumption of ethical conduct. I still think it is a poor assumption as I don't think there are any more people fighting for ethical polyamory then the are fighting for ethical monogamy. I think this site is a good example of people fighting for such...
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    "ethical polyamory"

    I don't think the word "polyamory" suggests anything other than the two root words on which the word polyamory is based. Loving more than one doesn't mean it is done ethically any more than traditional marriage suggests ethical monogamy. Anyone assuming either relationship orientation would...
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    What are you listening to now?

    I have been listening to this band, The Sound of Animals Fighting, for quite a few years and have heard this song many times but for some reason it has impacted me lately. I have been listening to it like crazy over the last few weeks. It's gorgeous, I think. The Heretic - The Sound of Animals...
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    Power is out. What do you do

    lol! I don't get bored much! The banjo is a new instrument to me... one week new. Ive got work to do on my picking but, being a guitar player since childhood, it hasnt been too hard to pick it up. I'm enjoying learning so far!
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    Who's dressing up for Halloween??

    Well that sounds like a sweet night so it counts as a candy equivalent. Score!
  9. polychronopolous

    Who's dressing up for Halloween??

    Did you get candy?
  10. polychronopolous

    Who's dressing up for Halloween??

    I dressed as a motorcycle rider in full gear. Just to be authentic I rode the motorcycle all the way to Yosemite and stayed the night. I think I pulled it off. I didn't get any candy, but I did have smoked trout with dill cream cheese, capers and red onions. Better than candy if you ask me. :D
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    Power is out. What do you do

    I've got a drum set, two acoustic guitars, and acoustic bass, a banjo and some other instruments in my house. I'd assign everyone an instrument and teach them their parts and, as soon as we master Twinkle Twinkle Little Star, go on tour. .....xylophone solo!
  12. polychronopolous

    Consent: What if it's Not Required?

    Can someone give permission but not consent? Can someone consent but not give permission?
  13. polychronopolous

    Consent: What if it's Not Required?

    With all due respect, the only difference between consent and permission as outlined above is that the recipient would "feel better" about having received consent over permission as they were defined. In reality, "you are not allowed to have sex with anyone else" and "I am not okay with you...
  14. polychronopolous

    A more inclusive way to consider sexuality

    EO. Seems kind of obvious, but the dual weight does add relevance.
  15. polychronopolous

    BDSM discussion

    Well, if you liked the lecture and are looking forward to the next one, you are on your way to kinkdom as lectures are actually listed among the fetishes on FL. ;)
  16. polychronopolous

    What are you listening to now?

    Eligy on the death of Queen Mary: O Dive Custos Auricae Domus - The Sixteen. Thank you, Henry Purcell.
  17. polychronopolous

    BDSM discussion

    I found lists like this (http://www.evilmonk.org/a/checklist.cfm?act=listalpha) very helpful when I first began. It's a pretty lengthy list, which I thought was great. Even if you are not using it contractually it helps to give you an idea of what's out there in the interestsphere.
  18. polychronopolous

    BDSM discussion

    Some of over/underlap in interests isn't necessarily a bad thing. Someone may have interests that don't appeal to you in the least, but they may also have interests you find intriguing. Regardless, you should expect that, no matter what interests you either share or don't share, your boundaries...
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    Not cut out for polyamory or lack of fire in relationship?

    Could be insecurities, could also be he's just not that into you.
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