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    Casting Polyamorous Relationships

    "Would you like a spectacle made out of your life, love and relationships? Are you comfortable with the fact that we will create 'scenarios' to paint situations in a way that follows our desire for provocative programing and edit footage later to fit you into our format? Would you like no...
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    Is There a God?

    That has become my view on life. I don't worry about death or dying because it is inevitable. Why worry about things that can't be changed when I could be living in the moment and making life count instead.
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    Music Speaks What Cannot Be Expressed.

    I listen to a LOT of music. I start at 7:00, take a few minute break on my way to work, resume at 8:00 and continue till 4:30. I often resume when I get home till I go to bed. Weekends are nonstop, usually. Lol! I enjoy a broad variety of genres as well. My most recent musical obsessions are...
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    A term for a mono who is OK with his/her partner being poly.

    That's true. Don't get me wrong, if I ever see it used elsewhere I'll squeee, then give out cigars in your name to everyone within arms reach as you will be the proud parent of a new word. I'm not humbugging it either, just not sure the the target market will identify with it. It is charming...
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    Is There a God?

    I voted for "There is no god" because I have seen no evidence to support the claim that there is one. When I picture (a) god, my mind goes to the sentient creator type guy or gal watching our daily toils and weighing our worthiness to achieve level 2 after our carbon form breaks down and we die...
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    A term for a mono who is OK with his/her partner being poly.

    It is cool, but as it wasn't necessarily one of her attributes, more a side story, I don't think she would exactly embody the concept enough for it to catch on.
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    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    It was Steve's last name in an Adam Sandler song. I don't even like Adam Sandler songs so I'm not sure, now, why I even picked this name. If I had it to do over, I'd just use my name like I do with most things now.
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    Beginnings

    ^ What she said. Good god.
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    Difference between partner of a polyamorous women and a cuckold

    Cuckoldry usually involves a good measure of humiliation to the cuckold as well as things like denial of sex and/or orgasm, chastity (in some cases) and domination from the wife. I'm sure there are many variations among those who engage in that fetish. I don't think you fall into this...
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    Poly/BDSM Intersection?

    I think that once you step out of societal norms you have already done the hard part of shaking off the idea that there is "a" way things should be done. Once that bridge is crossed it is a lot easier for people to try new things openly and see what fits. I'd bet the venn diagram for non...
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    Men have a harder time understanding polyamory than women

    Awesome, @stillfiguringthingsout! :)
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    Men have a harder time understanding polyamory than women

    I have never noticed more women than men feeling comfort with the subject. I am not sure "what kind" of man I am, so I am not sure how to digest that bite, but I am quite comfortable with poly dynamics and easily experience compersion. I suppose there is some level of historical familiarity...
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    Depeche Mode has written our anthem!

    Depeche Mode has written a shitload of anthems! :)
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    Embarrassed to admit my wife has a love

    Clearly you have some things to sort through. You will get there. My thought is this: you are a guy looking for someone who is accepting of a poly relationship dynamic. What's to be embarrassed about here? You and your wife have a poly relationship, and currently she has another partner. So...
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    It isn't an agreement if it is not written and signed..

    TGIG, good point. I still find it hard to believe anyone could inadvertently miss such a major detail. I suppose the aha moment would be when your partner sits down for the signing and, after a quiet pause, yells out, "We talked about that?" Now we know we have a communication problem. At the...
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    It isn't an agreement if it is not written and signed..

    I don't mean at all to bad-mouth your desire for written rules, boundaries, or other agreements, I am just wondering what it will ultimately give you. An agreement is only valid, where not legally binding, as long as both parties agree to uphold the terms of the agreement. In such a case it...
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    why "poly women" are bisexual ???

    I didn't send you any mail. Phoenix.
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    why "poly women" are bisexual ???

    You made the statement that most women here, feel free to read your original post, are bisexual but have provided no evidence to support that claim. Then you made a few sweeping generalizations about the superiority of bisexual women, once again without any supporting evidence. Now you are...
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    Dealing with lust and crushes

    You mention that your partners are allowed to flirt, kiss, and have sex with other people, but not whether they are able to have additional long-term partners. Is the relationship open equitably, or is there a sort of "I am okay with you having sex with others, but not dating, if you are okay...
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