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Love W.S. and Lord of the flies. I haven't read Cracked, but the others I could do without. Phoenix.

I don't have any advice really, I always find myself scratching my head at the sexual/asexual monogamous relationship. For one sex is clearly going to be a need at some point, for the other it is not a concern. I think sealing this type relationship in the monogamy model is setting the countdown...

There's always Type O Negative's "My girlfriends girlfriend". They actually have quite a few songs about non-monogamy, though usually through the lense of infidelity :/ Still, kinda hard not to like some TON. Phoenix.

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This, totally. You will be talking to people who, as far as you know, are completely unaware of poly relationships. Using terminology they are not familiar with will only make the discussion feel exclusive to them. People are able to understand dynamics a whole lot easier than they are able to...

It sounds like you are in a bit of a pickle, sir. There isn't much you can do about her position on progressing the relationship between you two, besides continue to be frustrated but enjoy what you have. I don't see any reason to break off the friendship as it stands either. If she is happy...

There are any number of ways you could bring up the fact that you are married. You could bring it up it casually in coversation to get the topic started. You might mention your wife likes X-thing that this woman likes, etc. But I would be sure she is aware that you are married and also that you...

Meep? Don't you mean "Squeee!"? :P

My first thought would be: As a lesbian dating a man, an asexual man at that, do you plan to go the duration of your relationship without any sexual contact. Does he expect you to live that was as well? It seems that, for at least one of you, that may be a very limiting expectation. Have the two...

I agree with Schrodinger, make it an amicable split if she agrees. Nobody ever wins when someone makes it a mission to screw the other as hard as they can out of vengeance. Writing doesn't always convey emotion as well as either the reader, or the writer might like, but you sound angry at your...

What Nycindie said. If it was a long impersonal message informing both of you about travel plans then ending with "...love you guys. XX O0", that would be one thing. But if it was supposed to be a personal message yet someone couldn't find the time to speak to me as an individual, that message...

Let her go. She has made it clear that this is more important than the relationship to her (or at least it sounds that way from your perspective). If you are not able to give her the freedom to explore what she wants, and she is unwilling to forego these activities, then you are at an impasse...

I don't think "serial monogamy" applies in short term relationships. Short term relationships are short term because they fail to develop into a viable, compatible relationship. It doesn't take years, or even one year to know someone is not right for you. This is usually obvious early on. So as...

I like Spotify because I couldnt otherwise afford the amount of music I listen to without considerable expentiture. I have about 1200 albums on Spotify, and about that many on cd at home. I am with you on albums vs. songs. I tend to like an artist as more of a package deal. If they only have...

That's true. But they always wanted to "go somewhere", which just isn't for me. Now I'm so fucking old, in the entertainment world, that the whole issue is moot. I want to work for money and play music for love. Well, I'd take free money and spend the rest of my time making music if it was an...

Honestly, it doesn't sound good. He may have resigned from the relationship along time ago. But all the outside opinion in the world is not equal to honest open dialog between the two of you. You need to ask him where he is at, permitting him to be completely honest, and be ready to hear things...

I've played the guitar and a few other instruments for quite a few years now. I've been in a few bands here and there, but always quit because I don't want to make a profession out of music (long story, I guess). My music tastes are quite varied, from death/grindcore to classical...

You forgot the next post... =/

By your logic, if your partner has ever kissed anyone but you then there is less "special" left for you. So, unless we can assume you did met somewhere in elementary school and have been steadfastly monogamous ever since, the notion that someone's romantic gestures toward others somehow robs you...

Yeah, this is exactly how I feel. I don't lock my phone at home, so my wife can go into it anytime she wants. I don't not lock it for that reason, and it isn't because she requests that I do this, either. I just don't have anything to hide from her, so why would I care if she picks up my phone...