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Yes, it IS the right thing to take off work. I have been following you for several years and, from what I've seen, you are a conscientious person and would not take off if you didn't NEED to.

Op, I think the consensus is that tightness DOESN'T matter. People here are trying to givr you good advice. Take what works for you and toss the rest. It shuts down the conversation when you start conveying hostility.

As a parent with adult children, I think you owe it to your family to give them a timeline when you all will be out. THAT is the priority. Your family may not feel supportive to you, but I wouldn't let any non-family members move into my house.

So, only intelligent, rich men have value? And only intellegent, young, beautiful women have value? Seems a bit messed up. What I DO agree with you on is that men should be responsible for their children. It's good you feel that way. I think the fundamental difference in the mindset between...

Oh, no! Hope you are on the mend. I don't kmow why he is even ON here.

PolAmy, you may not be received well coming on here as a new member and being so aggressive to someone who is struggling. I'm not sure why you have chosen this approach.

I hope everything is ok with Puck. In any event, YOU will be ok.

Why did you start cohabiting so quickly? Did your meta even WANT this?

I so hope you can get that ticket!

What I'm reading is reasons why you can't change your situation. There have been several suggestions about how you CAN change what is happening in your life, but you cut down every single one. I get that you have mental health issues; I really do. I have bipolar disorder and would...

In my opinion, you need to do a lot of work on yourselv WITHOUT a relationship influencing you. I'm not sure you really know what a healthy relationship looks like, as you were only 18 when a 49 year old decided it would be fine and dandy to take up with you. Gross. It's not cool to accuse...

Be good to yourself and stop participating in an affair. This isn't poly, and he has NO intentions on making this right. Honestly, what does this say about YOU? Hey, I've been there and got the t-shirt. It took a long time for me to accept blame and become a person who doesn't concern myself...

Please don't go.

Sounds to me like the OP's lover ix being treated poorly.

Welcome back!

Makes me wonder who had the idea to start this triad? Are you sure your husband and friend weren't already involved and were trying to "legitimize" their affair? At this point, you need to look out for your OWN interests. So sorry this is happening.

Dr. Jen Gunter is AWESOME. I bought her "The Vagina Bible" for my teenage daughter. It's time for ME to get tne menopause book. I first became aware of Dr. Gunter when I read an article of hers denouncing those vagina eggs Gwyneth Paltrow peddles on GOOP. That Christiane Northrup is crazypants.

I was like, "what's a haka?" Glad I took the couple of minutes to educate myself. Thank you for sharing!

Honestly, if you don't want drama, don't look for it.

I am so sorry.