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He's the only one in this regard. I have a kink based relationship with Blue too but the power exchange is reversed there. Red doesn't want me to have any other BDSM partners, not in the long term sense that would fill a similar position to his. And as far as the move goes, the plan is for them...

It's hard to say. If I had to guess I would say that all that was really on his mind was that he was worried for me because he hadn't heard from me for 12+ hours and he likely wasn't thinking about time zones or time frames.

4am to 9am

I'm not sure what the situation is there but from what they have both told me, it's very difficult to obtain counseling in the UK. He started with a program but there's no funding for it so it's on hold until they can get the funding they need. Yes, this is how I met him. As far as I can tell...

So Red contacts me through Whatsapp due to the overseas situation. He did text me when he woke up. He was up around 4 my time and I didn't text him until about 9. When I texted him, that's when he got upset. I feel it would probably also benefit to know that he has the means to track my phone...

He has always lived overseas and I've always been here. We met online. Eventually we plan to move in together but that's likely at least 3 years down the road- if it happens.

@GalaGirl you've said some really interesting things here that I think are really important for me to consider. It's interesting for me because as you know Red and I have had similar disagreements before and I have a friend who has said some very similar things to what you just said...

After kind of resolving everything, I can say that the issue was not necessarily that I had sex with Blue, but more that Red didn't know I was going to be with him in the first place. He wanted me to tell him where I was going and what my plans were going to be. And I know that the reason for...

I think it's really interesting that pretty much everyone is in agreement on this... It's really the only thing my primary and I have ever argued about consistently and we've been together for 3 years. I think it's a major source of insecurity for him and, hey, we all have them. It's important...

Thank you so much for your feedback on this.

It was an agreement but it seems like I misunderstood it, essentially. It seems to me to be overkill to expect that when it's an established person but he feels differently and ultimately I have to respect that.

I think it's less permission and more he wants to be notified/told? I think I worded it incorrectly. He was actually poly before I even came into the picture. It seems harsh to me too but his logic is that because he had no knowledge that it was happening until after the fact, it was cheating.

It seems like that's the case, yeah. And I agree, he absolutely deserves that respect. Thank you for your input and your help! I really appreciate it! ❤️

He definitely wanted me to check before hand. He says I knew this but I don't remember that being the case. Not that that means he's wrong, my memory is awful so I would default to him. I think in this case the rule just doesn't really make sense to me. In this specific instance, I had been...

So I have a primary partner who lives overseas. I have a "secondary" that lives in my town and I generally see him once or twice a month. I spent some time with my secondary without clearing it with my primary last night because some plans changed while the primary was asleep. Things got sexual...