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I apologize for grammar/abbreviation.. typing this on a phone... Asking for advice or probably more for empathy. *My wife and I have been together 25 great years and have just been starting to figure out this poly thing...we have played w swinging off and on for 10 years but that is easy...

So Im thinking a lot about flirting these days and spinning it around all different ways... One angle is how consenual flirting is...Im thinking about this a lot for several reasons... Ive just had to help a woman where at work get access to higher ups in HR cause the system was failing her...

So my wife and I have been slowly launching into poly, but after going to the Loving More conference we are both pretty excited about it. One thing we want to avoid is arguing over money. We are thinking about changing our finances around a bit and setting things up separate accounts for...

So why is it that fear of losing the people we love the most makes us treat them shittier than anyone else? What sense is there in that? And why does insecurity cause people to do crap that is the exact opposite of what would make sense. Bad day. Yesterday poly sounded like a great idea...

So anyone else find that the thing you have the most insecurity about with your partner's partners is the power dynamics, more so than the sex or emotion? I guess this is just my own insecurity that I'm continuing to work on, but my wife has never been willing to sub to me and now seems...

So I posted an intro a few days ago but just read the book "more than two" and its opened my eyes a bit, so want to see if Im starting to get a clue yet.... My sitch: married mid 40s, wife and I have been together 25 years. Still in love, still lots of desire, romance and good sex. 3 kids...

Hi there, My wife and I are mid-forties and have been together since we were 21 - so for 25 great years! Yay for us! We have always been up for a little more than monogamy, but both of us are wanting to explore more than just short term hookups/swinging. We are both interested in the...