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Cool - I will check that out I know... But don't you think objectively that sleeping with someone regularly and opening your heart to them does indeed increase the chance a bit that you might want to live with them and change things up a bit. Again, I think I can accept the idea that since my...

So I posted an intro a few days ago but just read the book "more than two" and its opened my eyes a bit, so want to see if Im starting to get a clue yet.... My sitch: married mid 40s, wife and I have been together 25 years. Still in love, still lots of desire, romance and good sex. 3 kids...

Thanks Kevin. Thanks for sharing your personal story and very sorry for your loss. Just recently lost my mom after years with Alzheimer's and watched what my Dad went through and so I feel for you - a very hard thing.

So I'm curious where others draw the line on new partners with exactly when to use condoms and when not to... Just read the reply about about frequency of genital herpes, etc. as well as some of the responses to that. My wife is no longer on the pill and I've been snipped, but we are certainly...

Really, really nice to hear. While its probably not true for all, its really nice to hear its true for you. Thanks for sharing that. A lot. Sweet.:cool:

Cool - thanks GirlfromTexlahoma Just trying to assess that risk as Galagirl said.. It helps to hear about you all as a couple that's making it work after 10 years together alone before launching into poly. And it does sound like if sane people are involved that maybe the NRE situation is...

In reply to Sporks comment: "The other notion that I like is maybe spending time together in poly friendly social settings and, while not particularly hunting down additional partners, just being open to what the universe presents to you. This might be the slower approach, but can potentially...

Thanks for the great replies so far!!! I do appreciate the responses though I know some questions can't really be answered for *me*, just what your experience has been, but thanks for sharing. You poly people are good at sharing apparently! :) Of course no one can answer the question of whether...

Hi there, My wife and I are mid-forties and have been together since we were 21 - so for 25 great years! Yay for us! We have always been up for a little more than monogamy, but both of us are wanting to explore more than just short term hookups/swinging. We are both interested in the...