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I second the endometrial ablation. My quality of life vastly improved!

Your girlfriend is painting cheating with a "poly" brush. It is always better to be able to trust your partner, and respect their privacy. However, sometimes we snoop because we know in our gut we are being lied to. Why would she just leave this disc in the computer? It's crazy. Sorry...

It's no one's fault, but you and your husband can't agree on this issue. This is turning you both into people you don't want to be. Divorce SUCKS, but at least there is an end point to it. You two are looking at making each other miserable until one of you dies or you just don't give a shit...

MajorM, I'm sorry, but I'm just wondering what you are going to tell the child you are pregnant with now when he or she gets older. Are you going to tell him/her that they have an OBLIGATION for sexual activity in a relationship, even if they don't want to? I really just don't understand...

I honestly don't see how this guy benefit's the OP's life in any way. Just chalk it up to a bad experience and move on. Unfortunately, it often is the case that the best sex involves someone who is completely awful for us. Why in the world would you always love him? What FOR?

It was a disaster the first time and now you're going back for more? You can't get him out of your head because you CHOOSE not to. It needs to die.

So, correct me if I'm wrong; what you're saying is that, since she says that she was assaulted by the boyfriend of a friend once, that means she is exercising poor judgement by trusting any man ever again? That she should not allow herself to be alone with a man she knows, because she should...

Yes it is!

Regardless of whether or not this person is "poly at heart," he signed up for a mono marriage. You are having an emotional affair, please call it for what it is. Why isn't HE the one looking for advice? We get a LOT of women on here who are looking for ways for their intended others to somehow...

I just finished Battlestar (again) after Spork mentioned in her blog that she's watching it.

I personally think AI is just over the horizon. The ethics of THAT eventuality is the whole premise of an HBO show, Westworld. Another one you might want to check out, if you have access to HBO. This is a subject I could discuss all day.

Yes, I liked that episode a lot!

While your anger at Meg is understandable, Red is the one who is really screwing you over. Why in the world are you willing to fight to keep a man like THAT?

Whatever his reasons, you don't have to accept this behavior. Why put yourself through this?

If anyone finds that Black Mirror is simply too bleak, an episode in Season 3 will give some relief. Kevin, you're almost there!

Leave it alone. If you bring the subject up and you're WRONG, you can't unring that bell. The idea will forever be implanted into your wife and her friend's minds. Even if you say that this isn't really your idea, you thought it was what THEY wanted, they will likely hear something completely...

I LOVED that show!

I am sorry for your situation. I'm a mono (former almost poly) who enjoys the discussions on this board, and cannot really offer any advice in your particular situation. But I wanted to let you know that I empathize. One thing I MUST state though; accepting poly does NOT mean you are more...

I agree with the others. You are NOT crazy and he IS gaslighting you. You deserve better.

PLEASE listen to Gala Girl. If an LDR "thing" is causing so much heartache, why keep doing it? It makes no sense.