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AAAAAND the unicorn hunters descend en masse. As AI pointed out, this post is FIVE YEARS OLD.

Mr.Mark, I think it's safe to say that this forum isn't really a good "fit" for you, troll or not. Why are you continuing to engage?

Purpleboots, this guy is definitely not someone you want to spend any more time on in a romantic way. He is the way he is because he likes it. He has women drawn to him to help demonstrate to him that love really IS worth the effort. He knows what he's doing, and he doesn't need to expend...

Mr Mark, are you DELIBERATELY trying to come off as condescending and abrasive?

Good for you!

WHY is it only your husband's feelings that matter? Are you not worthy of living a happy life yourself?

Awesome update!

Don't engage him further. He will just keep attempting to gaslight you and you may be prone to getting confused by his garbage. Write him off COMPLETELY. You don't need to explain to him "why;" he knows why, he just wants a confused to twist you up inside again so you keep putting up with his...

OP, this site IS a very supportive place, but also critical when needed. It sounds like you smacked your wife in her face with this possible (you haven't made it quite clear) affair, and you think that, if you just said the somehow "right" words, she will be totally on board! Doesn't work that...

I can completely empathize. I have been in your shoes before and it's scary as hell. Lean on your guys.

I don't believe for a second that they have discontinued contact. This isn't ethical poly. This is a whitewash for cheating. Others will be along who will assure you of what poly is and isn't. I just wanted you to know you have my empathy..

. Up until now, I've just been merely scratching my head as to why you are getting so heated up about this. Prejudice towards those who are "different"is as old as time. Luckily, society as a whole is leaning towards a "live and let live" approach. Yes, we still have the Christian right...

By helping her "practically," do you mean you give her money? If so, this isn't poly; she's using you. Yes, you may be poly but you have some huge NRE-glasses on. This woman is taking you for a ride. You deserve better. The "White Knight" persona is NOT serving you well.

Just STOP.

I'm starting to smell troll here.

In this relationship, you aren't being your "best" self. You are helping someone cheat. Full stop. Also, you are being cheated ON. This guy has you both manipulated so bad it's not even funny. Stop the insanity. Break it off. Spend some time working on yourself, then find someone with...

Just as an aside, while I find this bit of information to be very interesting, the Daily Mail is really considered to be a bit of a "rag." That doesn't mean the information cannot be true, but I'm just informing you of your source. It's where I go to get much of my celebrity half-truths.

That's a crapton of bullshit right there!

I agree. Having a serious conversation through text is a bad idea. My stepdaughter and I have had some pretty hairy arguments because she won't talk on the phone. She and I are both rather sarcastic, so text messaging goes sideways pretty damn fast. If I need to actually talk to her, I will...