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It's not worth it. By constantly pining for this woman you are closing yourself off emotionally to someone who will make you a PRIORITY. Right now you are just a plaything.

The general consensus is that it's best to have a period of no contact (30 days, I think) before trying to gather a platonic friendship from what's left. You need time for emotions to get back under control. It doesn't seem as if you guys are really "broken up" at all; maybe just no sex...

While the OP's husband may not be a "bad" person, he certainly is self-delusional. He can tell himself all he wants that unprotected intercourse with Susie wasn't "planned" and that it "just happened." That's just not true and, as long as he cops to not being in control of what he does, he...

While you want to work on forgiveness and going forward; I just need to point out ONE thing. When your husband went to Susie's house for "closure," he knew EXACTLY what was going to happen. His penis just didn't accidentally fall into her vagina, to be perfectly blunt about it. You need to...

Yes, it's a Netflix series. I have thought about starting Sneaky Pete, but haven't yet. Good to have the recommendation!

Have you checked out "Black Mirror" yet? You might like it.

I have a rescue greyhound as well, a brindle. He broke his leg during a race. He is a character, THAT'S for sure. He is loud, extroverted, and still likes to pee in the house if he's mad about something. King is a far cry from my previous brindle, Tanner. She didn't know how to be a "dog;"...

Everything WhatHappened said.

I wish for more Ab Fab. The first time I watched that show I almost peed myself. Sweetie; Darling. Sigh.

I don't choose to have close relationships with those who have hurt my loved ones. I don't think that's too much for you to ask.

I have a Dohm sound machine I got for around $40 from Amazon. A more important question for you is this; do you really WANT more sleepovers, or do you somehow feel like your relationship pales in comparison to your metamor's because they and your hinge sleep well together? If so, that is NOT...

I am SO sorry. Is there any possible way you could have another person in your therapy group give you rides? It seems like you really need to go.

That is SUCH good news!

This is a clusterfuck. Accept that your wife and her girlfriend have a relationship and stay out of it. For who knows what reason, you have taken on supporting someone you knew for a New York minute and it's not working out.

I find it extremely fishy that your best friend suddenly decides that they have to be a romantic relationship with you AFTER you established a relationship with your boyfriend. Something stinks in here. Haven't you wondered about that yourself? This epiphany at the most inconvenient of...

It's good that the space situation is being alleviated somewhat. It doesn't matter how well the kids get along NOW; there needs to be plans for each of them to have their own personal "space" at some point. It's very important as they get older.

OK, I read you saying that your kids are a reason to stick this out, but how can this situation POSSIBLY be good for these same kids? I'm sorry, but how were you thinking of them when you moved four other people into your one bedroom house? You are financially supporting four additional people...

You have NOTHING to feel sorry for. Please believe that.

I'm sorry about the mess you have found yourself in. I just don't understand why any of you thought it would be a good idea to move your girlfriend and her kids in. Is the girlfriend contributing to the household? Is she working? You can't "rescue" people, especially when your own lifeboat...