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    Introducing a mono couple to poly

    Wish I'd had this advice in the beginning. He doesn't like me. I'd go as far as to say he's been a bit hostile towards me since he thought his wife and I were getting a bit close, or that I was more interested than I ought to be in his wife. She's picked up on this as she doesn't invite me to...
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    Introducing a mono couple to poly

    Thanks tronprogram that is great advice! I was in a committed LTR before I met LO. My SO and I discussed having an open relationship - SO wasn't willing to "share" (her term for it) so we went our separate ways. Now I'm single. LO is married, with children, and a demanding career - so already...
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    Just wanting to do whats best but not sure what that is

    @Confused, great point. I expect that even in the best case scenario it will take a lot of trust and time for a couple to open their relationship to a third person. Patience is key; sex may naturally follow later; but best to let other forms of intimacy to develop without expectation.
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    Introducing a mono couple to poly

    My last relationship was monogamous and lasted for about 7 years. It ended recently because a year ago I became limerent for someone else. (more about limerence at limerence dot net) My Limerent Object is married with children and I recognised fairly quickly that I had become hopelessly...
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    Introducing a mono couple to poly

    This is somewhere between an interesting question and the last desperate attempt at keeping the fantasy alive for someone who has fallen in love with a married friend. Discuss....
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    Biblical Christian Poly Living

    Beautiful.
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    Those strange patterns in your dating history

    Older, married, fiercely intelligent, athletic (sometimes bulimic), emotionally troubled brunettes. Perhaps it can be explained thus: intelligent + emotionally troubled = plenty of game playing/manipulation from us both married = doesn't trigger my intimacy/commitment issues
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    Sexy movies that help set the mood

    Caligula Caligula (starring Malcolm McDowell, Teresa Ann Savoy, Helen Mirren)
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    Sexy movies that help set the mood

    Boxing Helena You might also enjoy Boxing Helena (Jennifer Lynch, David Lynch's daughter)
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    reCAPTCHA for searches

    Rather then the door number verification, the CAPTCHA for searches is the old style warped text which likely isn't solvable. It would be useful to be able to search the forum, perhaps give each user a pool of say 20 searches/24 hours to avoid your db being hammered too hard?
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    Polyamory, limerence, and marriage

    My parents divorced following my father having an affair and I grew up with lots of other kids from broken homes so monogamy/marriage never really made sense to me. Nor did being exclusive in a relationship as I enjoy people, different people have different things to offer, and I chafe at being...
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