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He's Really Doing It Back to the first post of this thread about DAG and the DADT policy. DAG is still holding to his policy. I am kinda surprised by that. Usually he'll try and find a way to bring me into whatever he has planned and wants to discuss. Lucy Ricardo, eat your heart out...

In A Few Weeks... We will have guests at our house for an event in the city close to us. DAG and I will not participate, but we will bend over backwards to make our guests feel comfortable. I look forward to seeing the out-of-towners, as I have not seen them in several months. Good people...

This Past Weekend... Was awesome! DAG and I use very different languages and skills when it comes to communication. His language very precise (he likes details), and my language is more broad (I like the bigger picture). We do get frustrated with each other in our communications, but I have...

AG, oddly enough, him flirting with mutual friends is OK with me. It's flirting with strangers that gives me pause. Also, I *really* try to stay away from rules. I've burned myself with doing that, and I am now shy of fires. Yes, El Lay stayed at our house. They were a good house guest...

So my husband DAG is a notorious flirt. He can't help himself, and I allow it because it makes him happy. He enjoys it. It gets him noticed, and satisfies his ego. Up front, I've never discussed boundaries with him on this issue, because I’m not sure what boundaries I need. Also, how to...

Hyundai Not sure where this is going to stop. I eventually wanted to drag Hyundai into this narrative, but the opportunity never really presented itself. Until now. DAG texted me earlier today, and let me know Hyundai wants to spend the night tonight with us. Background: DAG and Hyundai...

NY, VA and NC It's envy time!!! I have two friends (NY and NC) whom (who?) I've known for approximately 15 to 20 years. They have been a couple longer than I have known them. Within the past six months, they have added a third to their relationship, and now consider themselves a triad, or...

Good question. I don't know. DAG has my parent's and sister's number. I believe they have his. He and I will have to talk about that soon.

Sorry I wasn't clear. I got permission from Geyser to give their number to DAG. So at least DAG has their number, just in case. This is my want, not DAG's nor obviously Geyser's. DAG knows the reasons why, as he and I discussed this in relation to DAGs loves, and came to an agreement to...

A Discussion with Geyser So I had a conversation with Geyser yesterday about sharing contact info with DAG. Geyser wasn't sure why such a thing needed to happen. Their point was 'I don't know DAG, and I trust you in telling me the truth about all things related to all these relationships, so...

Totally OT: Give 76 another shot. The addition of the factions is a huge leap forward, as those additions have some really good missions/stories. I experience some glitches (getting into the power armor continues to be an issue for me), but other than that, I am really enjoying it. Like I've...

Mags, thank you very much for your insight and sharing your experience. Your advice is a welcomed slap in the face. I sincerely mean that in the best possible light. It helps tremendously. Please know I have tried to be as open and transparent as possible in relaying my experiences in the...

Bruiser Loves DAG, Bruiser Loves DAG NaNaNa Neener I should have seen this one coming from a mile away. And I did. Way back when in 2019 (I think it was around DAGs birthday), DAG, Bruiser, Fisticuffs and I went to the movies. Before we went to the movies, there was some discussion among...

Thanks Meera! I am looking for a public spot to vent privately. LOL!! Seriously though, I am open to people posting questions or comments about my ramblings as they wish. I might even answer them. However, this is me venting, and getting it out in the universe. I am also hoping those who...

A couple of them: "Challenges come so we can grow and be prepared for things we are not equipped to handle now." "You have to meet people where they are, and sometimes you have to leave them there." both by Iyanla Vanzant

The Return Of Geyser My very first true love. We met at a bar, and immediately hit it off. Geyser was beautiful. Great build, great looks, and a laid back personality which said 'I'm yours'. We moved in together, and stayed that way for two years. The relationship went south, but we had a...

De-Escalation and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance Ever see the movie 'Happiness'? Dylan Baker and Cynthia Stevenson starred. To me, the point of the movie is 'You think it's bad now, wait, it gets worse'. Yeah, this gets worse. De-escalation. I'm really trying to get into the heart of why...

The St. Valentine's Day Massacre Enough about Bruiser. I now want to concentrate on FistiCuffs. I am actually cool with them, or I should say I have no problem with them. They were part of the agreement I had with DAG on his play dates. When we met, we hit it off well enough. He didn't...

The Rule Yes, it's true, I made a Rule. I am begging the reader forgiveness ahead of reading this, because this is really bad, and I feel bad. I should have read and understood one of the tenets of poly. First do not make rules, make boundaries. Second, do not make rules with your meta...

My Extreme Swings This isn't about what you think (Gotcha!). Starting in November, I started opening up, and trying to fully accept the (at the time) poly situation. DAG and I were invited to Thanksgiving at Bruiser's and FC's house. At first, I didn't want to go, because fuck that. I was...