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  1. SNeacail

    Was about to break up with gf, then she turned out to be pregnant

    Seriously? You do have internet access right? Even my high school sex-ed class from 30 years ago taught that this is one of the least effective methods of birth control. Break it off with her or you will end up resenting her and things will just get really ugly with a kid in the middle. Spend...
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    Just LR

    Hello! Toddlers in the house - Of course everything else got ignored :). One toddler, not so bad. Multiple toddlers, I sympathize. Congrats on healthy granddaughter and that momma is okay.
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    Not Dead Yet!

    Yeah on no cancer!!! Did doctor suggest "just wait and see"? If so, I think I'd get a second opinion. My biggest mistake was delaying a procedure the doctor strongly suggested in the first place.
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    Just LR

    Sept 2016 will be here before you know it. It will seem like it's a long way off, then all of a sudden you blink and it's staring you in the face. No step is pointless.
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    Just LR

    Ick! Hate dental stuff. It always has to be this pay up front or die in pain. Glad you got your temporary crown.
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Exactly! It's real easy to leave it open on the computer and walk away. I've been know to have fb open, but minimized because I'm WORKING on 5 other things. Just because it's pops up on the mobile devices doesn't mean the receiver is actually in a position to answer immediately - my husband has...
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Not acceptable - I get that emotions are running high, but... If it's that important make a phone call. Most of us don't sit around all day and night, just waiting to reply to texts, emails or fb messages, we have other things to do that require our attention. It's not uncommon for my husband to...
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Hugs Bassman - I agree, a period of "No Contact", would be helpful. 45 days or so seems to be a good starting point - 30 isn't long enough. Crying is OK, so is cussing her out then back to crying for your loss.
  9. SNeacail

    Divorce

    These are questions for your attorney! These are legal questions and each state has different rules. IMHO, I doubt any judge in their right mind would sign a document telling your STBX he can't have contact with his girlfriend, because she pisses you off. Find a good attorney, find a good...
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    Just LR

    ((hugs!))
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    Fun and Frolic With Long-Term Love

    What boots don't come waterproofed - Well, that explains a few things. :P Yes, I live in Southern CA and we don't need to worry about such things most of the time.
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    Fun and Frolic With Long-Term Love

    Oh well, must have been one of the feather things and lights. My tree is usually covered in spaceships of some kind, so I just imagined it.
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    Fun and Frolic With Long-Term Love

    HA! About 30 degrees above R2D2 and toward the fireplace. I think I may have spotted a Tie fighter also, but I could be mistaken. I'm so going to have to hit up ebay for R2. BEAUTIFUL TREE!!!
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    Fun and Frolic With Long-Term Love

    LOL, I saw R2D2, Tardis & X-Wing - there was an octopus? Oh, there it is.
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Had to tell the husband to stop "asking for permission" to spend time with his bf. When it sounds like he is asking my permission, it hits me all the wrong way and brings back all sorts of negative feelings. I told him I would NEVER deny him permission to see anyone, but I might remind him of...
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    Cowboys and cowgirls

    Unfortunately, it's not uncommon for the person involved in the relationship to be blind to the more subtle attempts at sabotage many of these cowgirls/cowboys do, especially when they are all caught up in NRE. It's not always so obvious as the new partner simply asking them to leave the other...
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    Fun and Frolic With Long-Term Love

    There's a great no-kill sanctuary in Southern Utah - Best Friends. They have wild bird, household pets, pigs and horses, etc. The place is huge.
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    InformingLee

    My guess is that as long as you are "single" the family members that might be bothered, won't really care. For the most part many people expect that from "single" people. Sorry about Muse dropping out of the house deal, but my opinion is that you would likely be happier with your own place...
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    Just LR

    Holy Crap! I think I'd contact the police and report a possible stalker. Glad to hear that Maca was pissed off about this.
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