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Time for a reality check!!! Very likely you don't have the same taste in men to date (my husband and I definitely don't). I think both of you need to discuss this more and do a lot more research on what actually works in real life vs the fantasy world. The idea of finding that one person (aka...

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You might want to move this post (or have a moderator move it) to the "Poly Relationship Corner". You might get more responses. The only being intimate when all three of you are present is just creepy to me, but I don't have a swinging background. Rules and boundaries must be mutually agreed...

I could use some math right now. I'm stuck with an writing class and I just can't get into it. I find myself wishing for my accounting class from last semester. At least it was logical and there was only one right answer.

While the delivery company should fix the ceiling fan, you can get replacement blades at minimal cost that won't require any electrical work (only 3 screws). Sounds like a stressful and busy day. The new bed sounds divine (so jealous) :D

I'd leave this phrase out and stick with: Your chronicle will likely benefit you more than it will her. My husband offered to give me any details I wanted and once the offer was made, I realized that I didn't need or even want any of the details. I think what would be most helpful is...

Time-consuming hobbies are fun - also a way to get out an meet people with similar interests that you like spending time with. Just be careful to not go looking for a relationship, just because your lonely. Have fun dating for a good long while. Don't push yourself. I'm watching a friend go...

UGH! Between cracked screens and water damage(teenager's phone) I think I've been living at the repair store, luckily they are good and reasonably priced. The husband canceled our home phone a few months back, so having a teenager at home with no phone for emergencies is quite disconcerting...

Discussing Details: Ask her if she needs any more details? If she says "NO", say "Thank you! Coming forward with this is very difficult for me but I'm willing to tell you anything you want to know". Giving her space: Did she ask for space? If not, just keep in contact, every conversation...

You won't talk to an attorney, but you are worried about what to put down when you do file? Do you even know what your options are in the state you live in? IMHO - using adultery as a cause would be a LIE and unethical in this case. Rule of thumb: Do NOT make life changing decisions while...

That is a legal question that should be discussed with your attorney. If you were here in California it's easy there is are only 2 choices: Irreconcilable Differences & Incurable Insanity.

That's what I was thinking too. Based on the issues of just a month ago, Maca needs counseling desperately and is unwilling to get help. The severity of his mood swings says there is something wrong, more than just "he can't deal." He is not healthy, and you have done everything in your power...

How old is this women that she feels it's necessary to compare her air hockey skills to that of a child? Really?!? OK for really smart ass reply: "Well, our son is pretty well rounded and has multiple interests, so with school and his other hobbies, he really doesn't have time to dedicate to...

Not hardly! What I did have a problem with was that Debbie got pissy and angry because Ray didn't do thing in the order she wanted them done, but she didn't make it clear that he was NOT to be distracted by other chores that might come up or need doing during the day. Nor did she recognize...

This is not uncommon, as they are usually too close to the situation, and also swept up in the same drama and experiencing their own turmoil of emotions. They can't see the forest through the trees. This is VERY good! I found that as I get older, I have to "clean house" and remove those...

They are hard to find in real life, it's not just you. ((Hugs!))

Time for a giant white board in the living room with the whole concept in flow chart (electronic schematic) format. I totally get the frustration with the passive-aggressive BS and the subsequent back pedaling when they get called on irrational pronouncements. Drives me FUCKING Bat-shit crazy.

You did say he's been talking to the 24yr old troublemaker again. As I remember, he got pissy and unreasonable like this last time she was in the picture. Could also be his depression talking, but until he's ready to get his ass to a therapist, there's nothing you can do. ((Hugs!))

So for Christmas she gets 4 boxes of tampons, or better yet get her a "Diva Cup" and she never need to buy tampons again. Not like she has a job to get back to by a certain date, buy bus tickets instead of airline tickets (even if they are almost the same price).

WTF! You move in her bf, unpack and put away his stuff, get her car detailed because SHE spilled something and all she can do is focus on the stuff that DIDN'T get done. What was she doing while you were working your ass off? Househusband? It was my understanding that you are the primary wage...