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Hello everyone So I don't post a lot but have belonged awhile. I so love the knowledge and love that is always on Here for the love of Poly. Lolol. Going through a serious hurtful breakup I decided to let go and was journaling about the factors for success in relationships when I thought this...

Lazy and childish I'm sorry sweetie that that happened to you. This seems to be the trend that I am very disturbed at seeing the term poly being used for cheating. I don't want to get in the debate weather multiple love is a disposition or a choice....but being married or committed and lying...

Welcome Sweetie So thrilled you are doing well. It's nice to here because some of our relationships run so smooth and are almost....dare I say average it's hard to realize no..I'm not conventional. Yes! It's true...it's just so full of love and joy and the average household issues. I'm still...

You can gladly pm me as well. My husband has Aspergers and I'm facinated that the behavior is more common amongst Poly relationships than I thought. Peace

newbie steps Hi and welcome! I'm with Mags and Cindy girl on this one. You have just stepped in the waters. It's early and the excitement of love relationships AND the NRE of Poly itself as well! It's quiet freeing and nurturing and feels amazing to live it daily. There's no right way to be...

My apologies...my connection was not working well at the time http://money.cnn.com/2015/01/25/technology/polyamory-silicon-valley/

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CNNmoney Anyone see read the CNNmoney article on the poly weekly site? Haven't seen a post on it here yet.

not the only one guy Two years to go in a humanities degree...not really motivated. Hope you did well Middle girlie Peace

I guess this is the most appropriate thread for the time and opportunity to ask the question. Being fairly newer to being "actively" poly in a what's becoming an awesome V relationship..., with holidays, I'm curious how others handle Valentine's Day? Who gets what day or gifts etc. This year I...

Yes, I am noticing that even with my 2nd partner, I am naturally positive but always have no high expectations so am always waiting for NRE to drop but it is still there, now to have both that way seems overwhelmingly joyful. As for the metemour situation, sigh abit more sticky situation that...

I can't decide if I'm using this opportunity as a gushing and wanting to express my joy of my hubbys supportive attitudes or if its an opportunity to just add to a common theme that i'm seeing on some threads about SO and metamours and being extremely supportive.I have been struggling for almost...

poly background My dear sweet girl I am quiet curious...you and DH have been married 10 years. How long has your marriage been open. Did you both state from the begging you were both Poly before you married. I don't pick up one characteristic of a person living a poly lifestyle. Compassion...

Thank so much for the kind validation. Blessings.

Zig zag More than Two is an amazing book and I literally am reading some portion of that book on a daily basis. It's almost a bible for me. Since I discovered it it has helped me grow more than any other poly book I have come across. So glad you put that out there for Bree. I am using info in...

Welcome Shell and much wishes for you. Really accepting within yourself can be enough for the first step. Amazing how much of a burden it lifts from you And you will be surprised at just accepting it helps you live it on the outside and others slowly assimilate and are grAvitated to you who are...

smiles Your observations, side, pov and ideas are so welcomed! Your in site is very helpful at this current time with my hubby acceptance of a more serious second relationship than he had thought in my life. He's had some break down but also real open acceptance and encouraging attitude on some...

My first time using quotes. I agree Sith JzneWSmythe. I do experience compersion conditionally. I guess I look at it like advertising an amazing restaurant. It's something.g you want to share you want people to experience. My secondary is so delightful, sociAl, loving, funny, caring and giving...

Bree Magdlyns advice about extra care for FP right now is so so true. Your slow assimilation of the poly life structure to your FP was wise too. I am sorry for your struggles but pleased you had the courage to reach out. I too had been doing that with my mono husband (assimilation) and as long...

Welcome Welcome. So glad to see u here. This site and insite has been helpful for this newbie and I hope it is for you as well. Knowing and being around compassionate and loving polyfolk are the key!!. It's hard work don't get me wrong but love is always a work in progress. It pushess your...