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    Energy & Polyamory

    Hello again, taking a little break from work. Back to energy, many cultures have various forms of energy theory. Whether Sex Magik or Chakras or whatever, multiple people increase the energy of the group, think 13? or a simple 3, the number of the supreme power. When we are with another...
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    Funny Dating Ads/Profiles

    I can relate to that, we had two live ins, they created the drama. My wife was fine with my relationship with them as I was with her's
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    Energy & Polyamory

    Yes, and Hello again, I was busy working and stuff. Sex is a serious form of energy, often in the concept of Sex Magik. Don't look at demons as beings, often they are just part of a deeper human conscience. Sex is also a means of communication ad stress relief
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    Humor in being Poly

    Yup, I got it, I doubt he did, or wanted it!... funny thing is the same gf complained to my wife about being poked in the back with my hard on while sleeping... she looked at her and said' dammit, do something with it, don't waste a hard on'
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    Humor in being Poly

    We had a weekend GF, she would come and spend the weekend. Pretty blonde 24, my wife, very pretty blonde 41 and our daugther 3 also blonde. We were in Lowes shopping and this older woman was giving us dirty looks, I was sort of behaving I guess. I told the women I overheard the woman say...
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    Being "in a relationship" (sex & love)

    A lot, women and men see sex as to tool to get what you want, to to do something to get it. We had a couple that we saw through them and said 'time to go'. I wish we could just find someone to fit in with us. All around fit in, not just one thing or another
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    Being "in a relationship" (sex & love)

    River, they saw us as you saw as the piggy bank. I had women come out and tell me they had a live in BF, kids and they wanted something on the side. I wanted wanted more and my wife has expressed the same
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    Being "in a relationship" (sex & love)

    I had 3 GFs at once, sex all the time, I was unhappy because I always wound up being alone. I had live ins with lots of sex and barely anything else. When I met my wife, we found we had more than sex, and when we introduced a 3some into our lives, it was great, except we both want more than sex...
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    Threes company

    It makes me glad I am here, when everyone is mentoring not critizing someone new. M3, it is a growth to really understand being poly. My fondest memories of prior relationships is as much the non sexual events. Also slang does change the meaning of how we say things. My wife and I joke about...
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    Humor in being Poly

    As I was writing a response to a serious topic, I thought of a funny incident that if we weren't poly, would not have happened. In the beginning we agreed that it was ok to talk to others online, especially with the possibility of sex. Actually before we realized we were poly. We became...
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    HELP! Husband of 25+ years in love with former colleague, wants poly relationship

    Sorry Autumn, I don't see it as a huge breach of trust. He didn't act on it. He may have very well struggled with the thoughts, but kept it to himself. How many people are in LTR and can talk to their SO about that? When he hit a point that he could safely talk to his wife, Boom, a fight? Until...
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    HELP! Husband of 25+ years in love with former colleague, wants poly relationship

    We tried that sex in the same room, it is great, we prefer 3somes, either mfm or fmf. But life is sometimes busy, so we went to when you can do it, as long as the other knows. Right now that is the way we work it. Right now we only have a V with a male friend, I do miss watching him and her and...
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    HELP! Husband of 25+ years in love with former colleague, wants poly relationship

    You have been together 25 years, have you mistrusted him? Have either of you had sex with another since you started FWB?
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    HELP! Husband of 25+ years in love with former colleague, wants poly relationship

    I am getting mixed signals, did he and she have an affair, or were there just feelings and two people saying it was wrong to act on them? There is a difference. You opened the door by trying the swing scene? When my wife and I started out on our first date, we would up in a conversation over...
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    HELP! Husband of 25+ years in love with former colleague, wants poly relationship

    Did he have sex with her? His letting go of the feelings to you, could that not be a good thing? I am poly, I have held feelings for other women inside. I never acted on them. I basically blew them off. Now you said you like (have feelings) for H, your husband and her have feelings, you all...
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    Energy & Polyamory

    The linking of three human souls creates energy
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    Threes company

    Wow
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    6 months in. Married couple and married couple

    Tally sheets do not work in any relationship. Throw them away and the he said she said. I have had incredible sex with another woman we had a V with. It bothered me because I would have gladly had more with my wife. She is not the romantic type, she is getting better, she was a jeans and sweats...
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    Advice on figuring out needs & course of action

    You have to be flexible to be poly, two personalities are tough, throw in 3 or 4 and it can get crazy. We are still looking for the elusive wife #2, I have seen here so many different perspectives and relationships, it makes my head spin sometimes.
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    Wife's friend is cheating

    It does sound like he is ready to move on. If he and the gf have no ties, marriage, house, children, he may not understand the relationship you and your wife have. He may think she is cheating on you. In a case like this your wife needs you to be the wingman and have a clear head. It reminds...
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