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    Hello from Northern CA

    Greetings and well done
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    Advice on figuring out needs & course of action

    RR I was a little Vanilla, it was mf, some playful, but I had a gf that opened me up. Do not underestimate you ability to encourage him to explore. If you do things and he tells you 'that is disgusting' you may be with the wrong person. I have known guys that are so straight up they are missing...
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    Celebrities/Famous Poly Role Models

    You made me laugh
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    Hi Chamomile, Good to hear from you, I am glad you are happier. As for sports, I wasn't big on...

    Hi Chamomile, Good to hear from you, I am glad you are happier. As for sports, I wasn't big on them, but beer, a baseball game, bullshitting and the wife in lingerie changed that. As for MFM, we love them, even me. We looked for a bif and had no luck. my wife said Hey what about trying a mfm? we...
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    Advice on figuring out needs & course of action

    RR, I can only offer you that you are not alone. I was always poly, but hid it because it was not the norm. I am very kinky at times, ok a lot of times, but am also homey. My wife jokes about me being the better parent, etc. But I am so much more comfortable with two women in my life (been...
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    Wife's friend is cheating

    Trouble, we started 4some poly relationship once. I was 52, my wife 40 the other wife was 32. The husband wanted to go open marriage, so he could start having sex with an old gf. He picked us because I was older than his wife and he thought it would be a turn off for her and he would be free to...
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    Feeling excluded in poly relationship

    I am sorry but every guy my wife has had sex with, he and I get along great. The one we have, we get in trouble for bull shitting and forgetting she is there. As for women, we had one that we both shared, it was great, she would be there every weekend, we basically were husbands and wives, sadly...
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    Labels: Open Marriage Vs. Polyamory?

    We both can have sex with others, she is more or less exclusive to me and one fiend, I have had gfs in past one on and off for 8 years. WE tried the swinger thing, not us, we do occasionally as we still have friends in that community. We do talk about a wife, that has a good possibility of...
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    He slept with someone before we've really started having a poly relationship

    Been there, I have seen most guys scared of their wives, especially in NJ, divorce is a woman thing here.
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    He slept with someone before we've really started having a poly relationship

    He could also be scared, not willing to risk their relationship over sex?
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    Hello, we are a couple, both bi, prefer 3somes, friends, may be interested

    Hello, we are a couple, both bi, prefer 3somes, friends, may be interested
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    Hosea the prophet

    Actually there are lots of problems with wording in the Bible. There are too many translations and opinions as to meanings. ok at the poor reputation they made for Mary Magdalene? Also Jews at the time and until the 13th Century or so were allowed to have more than one wife. We are told that if...
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    Hey Chamomile, you are at the first hurdle, seeing someone you love having sex with another. I...

    Hey Chamomile, you are at the first hurdle, seeing someone you love having sex with another. I was a little jealous at first, but we had our first mfm and the guy said to me, imagine you are at a porn movie and you have the best seat in the house. I did and watching her get it was so erotic. It...
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    He slept with someone before we've really started having a poly relationship

    Welcome Chamomile, I am sorry you had a bad start, but what if he had the same thoughts and feelings? Just for a guy to talk to his wife about it is scary. Admit it a lot of women would say, 'you don't love me, you want to have sex with someone else?' You opened the door and he jumped in... a...
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    How to have sex in with others in Open Marriage

    THat is too funny, I needed that. Actually sometimes my wife and I run interference for each other. Her BF comes over and I cover for her, from the dog... damn critter can smell some one different in the house... won't shut up. I told him, make friends with him as a puppy, he will be big.
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    Sad. Metamour says no.

    Too much drama, you are better without them
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    Poly sexual dysfunction

    We have had something similar. When I had a gf, she and I were wild, she was uninhibited compared to Dani, She would ask me what I wanted her wear when we met... a T shirt and flip flops, and they were off in minutes, she was fine being naked in my truck. She was not my first gf like that. I...
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    How to have sex in with others in Open Marriage

    LOL we used to do it in my truck, she was a bit of a redneck, at home. Once we all were all sleeping together and my gf woke up horny and good not go back to sleep. She woke me up by starting me.. my wife, Dani ,with a bit of an attitude, said, ' I am tired, can you please go downstairs? we...
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    How to have sex in with others in Open Marriage

    We had a couple that we played with. The child care thing was a pain so we just switched partners and dated. He was an ass and it didn't go anywhere with those two. The woman and I were like teenagers, at least I had a full size pick up.... it was great fun. We did a motel occasionally.
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    Could be?

    That was more joking around, we have a V with a guy, whom, she gets pissed at us for talking work when she is horny. We have had Vs and triads with other women, even two live ins. We are more polygamous than anything, we are talking about a wife to move in
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