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    possibly confusing intro

    Damn you Kevin, you said what I wanted to say.... he is right. Email, text can work, it gives you time to think about what you want to say. We went from a V to a triad, Dani, my wife tried, but the L, she was more set to be mono with me. That wasn't going to happen, she could never understand...
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    Spiritual and/or Mystical Nontheism

    I an go with this, even though I am Reform, I like the Chabad for learning. "he Jewish mystics described a spiritual place called “Gehinnom.” This is usually translated as “Hell,” but a better translation would be “the Supernal Washing Machine.” Because that’s exactly how it works. The way our...
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    Sex history calculator

    I have had some really good sex with a woman, either masturbating with her or each other.
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    Jumping in with both feet

    Welcome , I have found that thinking of the other person as a tool for foreplay helps. I have been horny for my wife, but exhausted, the other guy really helped out getting her wet and ready. And I did not feel bad for only caring about my orgasms. You may want to negotiate back massages to...
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    Spiritual and/or Mystical Nontheism

    A cleansing/punishment to get you back on track to heaven. Most of my time was Reform, as the S adduces thought death ended it all, The Pharisees looked for a resurrection
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    Jumping in with both feet

    We had small jealousy issues in the beginning, I am so glad we got rid of them. Our playmate is one of her ex BFs, nice guy, we get along great, we both know how to make her cum like crazy, it was strange in the beginning. He is poly and doesn't know it. SOciety has programmed him to be mono
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    Jumping in with both feet

    Not to downplay your situation, but you seem to have it managed and a lot less drama than other problems discussed on here. Girls day is good and so is the family dinner
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    Jumping in with both feet

    Then you have to way to go. Just let it happen. It is not so mush a lack of respect as it just happens. My wife has had that.... I get "I know I was only to give him a bj, but his cock was so nice I had to have it in me' I just rolled with it and said climb on, she fucked the shit out of me...
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    Jumping in with both feet

    We did that once with a couple. With both of us having kids, we opted for one on one with the other's spouse. It was good except he was an ass and a manipulator. Don't let that part concern you. If both of the others in the couple want to work with you on issues. It also doesn't have to be...
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    I wanna be mono again.

    Welcome, Sorry to hear, is it a Jealousy issue? are you just socially wired to mono? It does take some getting used to. Maybe talking it out with them? Or just hang here and hear the reasons. Society puts a lot of pressure on being mono
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    Hello!

    Welcome, I beat Kevin
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    Polyamory Research Survey

    It is not a flaw in the design. The did a survey and it exceeded the parameters of the survey. It happens, they will redo it or redefine the group, such as a sample of non-monogamous relationship. When I came here, I was surprised by the different variations in relationships.
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    Polyamory in the Ancient Celts

    There are 10 different unions, mostly a pre-nup sort. But this one caught my eye. From the same source, but I have seen this before. "The Celts were believers in polygamy, so second wives and concubines were common, especially before the Roman invasion of their native lands. Multiple husbands...
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    Polyamory Research Survey

    I think he is trying to say that an analysis of polyamory would be very complex. We have a Vee now with a male, are developing a Vee with a female and I, with my hopes for a future triad. We have had both Vees and triads. In my short time here, it is more complicated than I thought. Let them...
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    SCOTUS ruling

    Wow can I be safe anywhere from junk mail
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    SCOTUS ruling

    I also married one ex in a civil ceremony, it was still called a marriage. Marriage is a term meaning the bond between two people, or soon between three people. It has since just the Latin been a general term. Until the last century we had "Common law marriage" in this country. You merely lived...
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    SCOTUS ruling

    OK it is as it is in the Protestant Faiths. My wife and I were married in the Jewish Faith, it was נישואים, meaning marriage. it goes from Old English to French to the origin "The word "marriage" derives from Middle English mariage, which first appears in 1250–1300 CE. This in turn is derived...
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    Sex history calculator

    OK I got some paper and I was 83%, damn I went with 28, but I could be wrong, it may be a senior moment
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    Sex history calculator

    I tried but I lost count
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    Spiritual and/or Mystical Nontheism

    Yes we have a covenant and no hell, but depends on which group, they say for every two Jews you have three opinions
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