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Hi guys, I'm looking for advice and or just support and a place to vent this issue... I am married to my primary. My other lover Paul has had many relationships in the past, some purely sexual and others more involved. He is a mature 43 year old with a stable job. He is a a blessing in my life...

Paul's wife and he have completely desperate groups of friends. She doesn't care for any of his Friwnds actually. She is civil to us. She knows of some of his other past relationships. She tolerates I suppose. As for Thomas, my husband. Yes he has been with more men than women. He is truly...

Good luck! With your background you have some wisdom. My husband is the one who brought it up when we made it stick! I am new here too :) some of his reasoning was serif a deepening relationship between a good friend and I. It has worked out very well for us. It is certainly scary to talk about...

I agree that it is just another day. I am festive tho and enjoy most designated 'holidays' for the fun of it. My primary doesnt have anyone else to really make plans with so sometimes he can feel left out as well. I know for him any time I am with my other would be made easier when he has...

Yesterday was my first official Vday in a true poly relationship. I was able to have lunch with my mate Paul while my primary Thomas was at work. And then dinner with them both and a movie. It went well and smoothly! I am curious how others handle their love days.

Oh yes we have discussed it. He takes full responsibility for her knowledge if she does find out. In his words 'it won't be your problem'. I let him handle his marriage and remain respectful when we are around each other. We are civil and kind.

Thank you for the welcome! Thomas has his moments. Honestly his age makes a huge difference. My husband is 26 and as I said P is 43. Thomas is a typical young guy and Paul has been married twice, two adult children, military background and has lived in many dofferent places. There is jealousy...

Hi! I am here to view and learn from others in similar situations to mine. I am a married 26 yo woman. I have been married to Thomas for 6 years. Early in our marriage we tried what we categorized as 'swinging'. Whereas it was 'fun' it caused issue after issue for us. Mostly for me since I...