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This is why I am happy to have landed here. Three days ago, I was envious of the time B was spending with P. It is because of insight like this that I realized I wasn't unhappy because she was with him, but because she wasn't with ME. This bothers me, because I have pushed all my friends away...

So, what do you do when you aren't envious, jealous, or angry, but simply sad, lonely, and feeling isolated? "Get a hobby."

You all may not be struggling, but I am... I am very glad to have found this board. The advice and insight I have received has already helped me tremendously. I have, at least, identified from where some of my insecurity stems, and (I think) I am doing a better job at searching for the root of...

Lyra and I are very new to this, compared to the length of our relationship prior to allowing others in, so she and I had agreed that she would ask prior to pursuing anyone. Upon reflection, it seems silly, because one's heart never asks permission to feel attached to someone, but hay was laid...

I have also been worried about this point that Ariakas made in another thread. I think it is most often true that to find the source of any unhappiness we suffer, we need look no further than ourselves. Sadly, realizing the root of an issue is a hell of a lot different than fixing it. :eek:

GS, thank you for your advice. My problem right now is that my heart isn't nearly as level as my head. I fear that Lyra's need for more than just me is affecting how I feel about her. For almost 20 years, she has been my everything. Every time she is away, I feel rejected. I can feel the...

Hi everyone! I haven't yet posted in the Introductions, so I'll provide some of the background here. My wife, call her Lyra, posted here first and brought this resource to my attention (original post in the "Am I overthinking it?" thread). I am the monogamous husband in the second V now that...